bad luck in love
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
May 11, 2011 12:33pm CST
I don't know why but I seem to have bad luck in love.I see couples everywhere that seem to be so happy. it's like happiness wasn't meant for me...I'm not waiting for price charming. i just want a guy that loves me and respects me.is this too much to ask?
5 responses
@Geomos (322)
• South Africa
12 May 11
Hey Swiss?
You don't seem very happy and I don't blame you. I know everybody will be full of advice at this point, some good and sensible and some simply bad and stupid.
You have my understanding and empathy (been there, done that, got the T-shirt).
All I can say is hang in there friend, love works in strange ways and you need to have a lot of patience.
I'm sure you deserve the love and respect. It will come when you least expect it.
I Wish you luck and send you a hug for comfort.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 May 11
thank you for those kind words... I used to think I had found love...sadly it seems that I was wrong. anyway have a nice day
@Idmega2000 (127)
• United States
11 May 11
Its not too big for you to ask but you need to realise true love is hard to find. you've always being with players just for u to diffrenciate between truelove and falselove, now you have experience. Follow your instinct,don't just jump into a relationship , know the type of person he is before having a relationship with anybody,take your time to find out, do not make the same mistakes u've made before, best of luck
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 May 11
you're right I should learn from my mistakes. guess the problem is the fact that I like the wrong type of guys. because I seem to dall only for jerk and not appreciate the person who would really care for me.I don;t understand why somebody would lie to you telling you all kind of silly things and pretending to care for you...what do they get? another girl/ boy on the list? this seems like totally pointless to me but...who knows maybe it's has a purpose above my understanding
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 May 11
No it is not a lot to ask for and in fact you should want, demand and expect to be respected over it. Everyone deserves to have love reciprocated, sadly you have yet to get it but do keep in mind that maybe with time you will get the so deserved love.
Also do not look at it from the eyes of what you see, some couples have their bad moments and perhaps are not showing that outwardly, so concentrate on what you want from love and do not settle for less then you deserve.
Not saying to be overly indulgent but certainly expect exactly what you give.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 May 11
I know that all couples have their problems and that the key to a healthy relationship is to manage to work them out. but I have friends that despite those problems seem to be so happy together. I also have friends who have the same problem as I do. to tell you the truth I don't know what I'm doing wrong cuz when I say that I have finally found that special person something bad happens and things fall apart...and it's like this....everytime. guess I'll have to get used to the idea of being lonely
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Why can you say that you have bad luck in love? Have you tried loving and lost.
I guess, when you love and lost, it means there's someone out there truly meant for you , not that lost love. Pray for it so i would be given to you by God.
@jaspal941 (107)
•
11 May 11
hi swissheart!!
well love is not a thing which you buy. When it happen,don't know. How it happen,God know. When any guy love you and he miss you every time by phones or mail no matter then you automatically feeling that you are in love. He is do fun with you or anything, don't know but if he really love you then he help you always and he never leave you. True love cannot found easily but when we got over true love then life totally change.
