"Its not OK"

India
May 12, 2011 9:03am CST
Most of us come into this world with the seed in us "its not OK'.And all our life we try to correct people,situations and events.How much can u correct?Its like trying to rearrange clouds in the sky.This seed does not allow one to be happy,to smile from ur heart,to be loving and loveable.Its always there like a thorn--irritating,irritating. How Do You Burn this Seed???
2 responses
• Philippines
14 May 11
Most of the time we want something to turn out how we planned or imagined it. Well things don't really turn out our way quite often because we have different views of everything. What we can do, though, is accept what's happening in front of our eyes and see what really is there. That's the real reality and not some fake reality that we run over and over in our minds.
• India
15 May 11
But just accepting what is going on in front of our eyes,will help? Cant we put in some little efforts to try and change it.because only accepting will not bring peace in the mind,something will still hurt us like a thorn.
• Philippines
16 May 11
What I'm talking about is you've planned things out but when things go wrong we get angry. Yeah, you've put in more than enough effort but still everything turned out different and many times this is true. Even if we put in more effort, things won't work out the way we imagined it because things work out differently between our heads and the reality.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 May 11
Keeping in mind always, that people have different ways and means in doing things will help us accept people the way they are. What will be okay for you may not be okay for them. Besides, the thought of them speaking behind your back, that you are so picky on people is enough to make you stop having the seed of "it's not ok". Nobody wants to be a friend to someone who has that seed.