Getting married

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Philippines
May 13, 2011 5:18am CST
I've noticed some people getting a hard time with picking their partner in life. Some wants to get married but haven't find the right person for them. Some got their parner but still undecided on getting married. So, when is the perfect time to get married?
12 responses
• India
13 May 11
choose the partner who loves the most and dont depend on others decission for this choose vicely and lead a happy life ok byee...
• Philippines
18 May 11
You're right and I really hate fixed marriage which my Mom experienced before she gets married with my Dad.
• United States
13 May 11
The only perfect time to get married is when you've met someone with whom you share connection, compatibility, compromise, goals, values and beliefs and whom you want to be married to, when you are ready to be married. Other than that, there is no "perfect time", nor "right age".
• Philippines
27 May 11
I agree with you. Thanks for your time.
@Bernard9 (56)
13 May 11
Sorry I forgot to add. You will know when he/she is right and when to get married. Do not worry about it, it will happen when the time is right.
@gyani1978 (147)
• India
13 May 11
As according to me when some person are not able to get the right person for married then it may be his/her issue because he/her has not ability to select the right partner. & Some one get the right partner but still not decided to get married then may be his/her financially problem or may be his parents not ready with that.
• Philippines
27 May 11
You're right. When getting into this concern, one must examine his/her self first. Is she/he complete already to share his/her wholeness with someone for the rest of their lives.
• United States
14 May 11
This question is an extremely hard one to answer. It depends and is different for every individual. Things that must be considered are being financially stable, being mature, and being in love.
• China
14 May 11
This is partly a matter of personal circumstances,partly a matter of psychology. There is no one "perfect time " for a person to get married,marrige is not some kind of math problem you can solve by some particular formula. For me,I will be prefectly happy to stay single all my life if I can't find a suitable mate.But if I have one,and we have need to live under the same roof and have our own children,I will be happy to get married too. It depends.
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
13 May 11
I too think that there's no perfect time to get married, it depends on the couples, whether they both think it's time to get married. Some think how long the couples being together is important, some think financial stability is important, some think age is important, and of course, relationship stability is important for all. Though it's being a bit idealistic, I always think we can always find our partner in life, it's just the matter of time, or some just overlook it.
• Philippines
13 May 11
It depends. They will know when they found the right person and their feelings for them are genuine. Getting married is a big responsibility because you will forever be legally tied to the person you're marrying and spend the rest of your life loving that person and growing old with him/her.
@Bernard9 (56)
13 May 11
I do not know about anyone else but I knew when I was ready to get married, I remember going home with one ex and she announced to her parents that we were getting married. I nearly fell through the chair and the floor. She had said nothing to me before hand. Simply I wasn't ready to get married. I met my to be wife at a dance by accident, my friend was getting on so well with her friend that we retired from the dance floor. Anyway being thick and stupid I did not ask her out the following day. My friend did ask her friend out the following day and I was just lucky enough to ask her to bring her friend too. On the following day I was watching her and it just occured to me that I could mary this girl. A year later we did get married and I am still with her.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
13 May 11
hello, Yeah, that's true! nowadays people wanna make sure that they are finally found the one. Well, like what you have said that some people still looking for the one but they not yet seeing it maybe because they not notice it sometimes it is on their front but they never give an attention to it. And some already have but still undecided it is because something they are expecting but they not yet seen it.
@jaspal941 (107)
13 May 11
hi ludyvel!! According to government,the boy age 21 and the girl's age 18 to get married. But i think there is no any fix time to get married. When you fall in love with anyone then you marry with her/his. Without love, all time is perfect time for married but i think love marriage is best. I also like love marriage because there is not any fight after marriage. The arrange marriage have so many problem because i think girl love anyone else or boy love anyone else. So i think love marriage is perfect and all time is perfect for them. Have a nice day. See you again with more interesting discussions.
@jaspal941 (107)
13 May 11
Hi ludyve!! According to government, the boy age 21 and girl's age 18 to get married. But i think there is no any fix time to get married. When you fall in love with anyone then you marry with her/his. Without love,all time is perfect time for marriage but i think love marriage is best. I also like love marriage because there is not any problem after marriage. While in arrage marriage have so many problems because in this girl loves anyone else and boy love anyone else. So i think love marriage is perfect and all time is perfect for them to get married. Have a nice day. See you again in discussions.