Debts of your bf/gf. Do you ask for payment of it?

Philippines
May 19, 2011 1:55am CST
I am kind a worried since my bf borrowed about 14 thousand pesos to me. He's not working yet cause he's kind a busy now reviewing for board exam. I was wondering if he could still be able to pay me with that big amount knowing that he has no work. What will he pay me. Money of his parents? Oh my God, unacceptable. I let him borrowed for those times that his parents can't send him money but he doesn't even informed them or asked them to send him. Huh! Now I suffered cause I don't have any savings left and it will take weeks until I can be able to get in a job as a regular employee and months to receive my first paycheck. Crap!
3 responses
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 May 11
hello, Wow! I think that is too big So, I will ask payment from him because this is not a joke it is your saving. right? Beside where do he needing that kind of amount? Why he never ask for his parents since he dont have any work yet. Maybe he will pay you as soon as he gets a job. LOL good luck to you!. Well, my boyfriend and I never ask for payment when we have a debts to each other since it is not too high like yours. Its not a big deal to me but in you situations maybe you must need to ask him a payment.
• Philippines
19 May 11
yeah it bothers me a lot. You know I wanna ask him to pay me but he always started to disgust things that are out of the topic. Yeah changing the topic. In time I hope I could be able to get that amount. thanks tina.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
Wow, 14k is a huge amount. You have to really ask for him to pay that. It's your money after all, and you don't wish to suffer because you don't have money right? And the money is yours legally so ask for him to pay it. It might be good to ask after his examination. he might not be able to answer his exam for thinking about is debt.
@iklananda (1202)
19 May 11
You should take him to do some work in the internet so he still can earn money and you can let him be a usefull man in the community