Love Hurts... have you experienced that?

India
May 19, 2011 4:58am CST
people fall in love.people cry in love.people die in love. yes... everyone...i bet everyone falls in love minimum once in a lifetime.sadly ... most of them are not succeeded.may be they get success in 2 nd ...3 rd....or even more trying. love is pain,pain is love.can you explain that? love hurts...but,we want to feel pain sometimes.everyone knows,how it hurts.but,it differs...person to person.let us see...how it happened to us ?please friends open your heart... it is the freedom of speaking our feelings about the most oldest and original emotion in human history-LOVE HURTS
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
19 May 11
Falling in love and getting hurt are synonym. Like guitar and rhythm , song and remix. Inevitable , unavoidable. Yeah love could hurt and it could give odd sensations too like those butterflies flying in the stomach. Only the bravest will declare love and hold on to it. One should be a warrior in love and a princess in shining armor. At least that's what I think. It's sort of like survival of the fittest in love. Fall in love , get hurt , get over it and don't give up. The right one will roll along. If not now , later and so hence and forth. At least , this is what my 5 cents worth on the topic. I won't deny that love hurts though. It is like a double-edged sword. Good topic.
• India
19 May 11
nice comparisons my friend.like guitar and rhythm.when we play some wrong chords,it sounds odd.the rhythm is broken.we can feel it.charles darween believed it as well...survival of the fittest.lolz.yes,we live our life on edges of love.it cuts,it bleeds but,it gives us the taste of blood.we wont stop to fall in love...we wont
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
20 May 11
It's my pleasure ... love is universal.. and I like how you explained everything about the chords thingy too.
• India
19 May 11
and..thanks for appreciating my topic...
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• Philippines
19 May 11
Yes, I think all of us go through it at some point in our lives. It is never easy to get broken hearted, especially when you feel so strongly about your partner and you had hopes and wishes that it is that person whom you're gonna spent the rest of your life with. Personally, every failed relationships that we experienced should liberate us..it should strengthen us emotionally and make us grow more mature in dealing with our life.
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• Philippines
20 May 11
Totally agree, we never fail to choose to love again even if we get hurt. It is like a cycle..In reality, we cannot live in this life without the presence of love. But hopefully so, in the next relationship that we encounter we become more fully aware of what works and what to avoid. In order not to get hurt again, we must be able to adjust. Loving is just the way of life. I have often heard of this cliche, "Love makes the world go round". We cannot continue on living without love. If we do, it is not "living" at all but only "existing".
• India
19 May 11
last two lines are so strong dear.yes after every painful moment we find another way to live ,another way to love.love and ...love again.though it hurts...it is a emotional and beautiful knife,which cuts our inside.shows the core of our heart.but,we want to bleed again and again my friend...
• India
23 May 11
love has many dimensions.so,when we get hurt and fell in love again,hoping that-we wont do last time's faults again.but,it finds newer ways to hurt us...lolz.funny but true
• Mexico
19 May 11
Hi ittarayan: I think that is not love that hurts. It's the absence of love the one that hurts. When you don't feel loved then you'll feel hurt, if you feel betrayed same happends. So it's quite different. In a perfect world love won't hurt. But we are humans and we make mistakes. However, at the same time this pain is good because it means that we are growing up. We can learn from these experiences. ALVARO
• India
19 May 11
well my friend.i respect your opinion.according to me,love comes with responsibilities.responsibilities gives us a person to care.and when we want to take care for a person we get to the extent of possessive.and we all know possessiveness brings pain.its a circular orbit.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
19 May 11
Love if its true then it hurts for a long time may be throughout ur journey of life time.Those memories are always in the heart will never go off.Unless and Until u find a person having the right feeling as u have ,understanding and caring as u have the love will never succeed., it is not one way traffic,that love never succeeds.Both have to hav the love for each other and hav good understadning .
• India
23 May 11
the memories are like costly pearls,which we store into the core of our hearts.though they are painful...but,sometimes,we love the pain ...
@moirai (2842)
• Philippines
19 May 11
Yes. Love hurts. I guess, in general, it hurts when one expects something and does not get it... or at least not get it in exactly the way he/she envisioned it... Not sure about the statement 'we want to feel pain sometimes' though... I think it's not that we want to feel pain. It's just that sometimes, there is nothing we can do but to accept the pain...
• India
23 May 11
but,we love to accept the pain,is not it? we love to get hurt in love,is not it? because,by that way we prove ourself that-we are in love like never before...
@kukai127 (67)
• Philippines
20 May 11
we celebrate life by experiencing all sorts of emotions... falling in love is one of them... however, getting hurt is also unavoidable... we stumble down but our hearts are stronger than we think. we rise back up, ready to take new challenges... we rest our hearts for a while after getting hurt but that doesn't mean we are not going to fall in love anymore. i believe in waiting for the right one rather than searching for him/her. it is sometimes better to stay put and love life rather than loving the idea of love in one person...
• India
23 May 11
you are so right my dear.it is better to wait and see... we are mature enough,love already taught us some lessons.hope the next time we will decide the best.until that... enjoy the pain.the pain of love.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
I heard that its true, that there are people who have indeed suffered so much pain because of being broken hearted. They said that we can die e a broken heart, the heart would suddenly stop beating. As for me, i have experienced. This myself, being broken hearted and to cry non stop and to just want to cry, be by yourself.
• United States
24 May 11
the worse feeling is when you love someone who doesn't love you back. It Really hurts. You opened yourself up only to be rejected. What is Really sad is that many get hurt and Never open up again. So even when the real thing comes along they are so closed that they don't see it! But with pothers like me, they try again And succeed. But to succeed you Must mend your heart and the first step is to Feel the hurt. to let yourself grieve what you lost.Many won't do that. So they never really get to try to love again.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
19 May 11
Hello there.:-) When you are in love you are letting yourself vulnerable to the pains and getting hurt. Love means we care and when we care that's the time we start to worry about the person we love. And as humans we also expect to get loved in returned. However,when such expectations are failed to achieve then we feel pained and hurt. I do not know about others but the only way for me to love is to feel pain at the same time. Without having to experience that love hurts , I can not really say that I am in love or truly giving love. Love and pain are cousins.
• India
19 May 11
nice and logical comment my friend.yes we care and we worry about the particular person.that results into the pain... but,we never knew pain can be beautiful ...
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
19 May 11
When you fall in love, be ready to get hurt. I have been hurt so many times because of love, but i still choose to love. The joys of love is more than the pain. Besides, i believe in the saying "it is better to have love and lost than having not loved at all."
• India
19 May 11
yes my friend... the joy always finds its way behind the pain somewhere.may be thats why we want to fall in love again and again and we love to feel pain in love.
• Philippines
19 May 11
if you are inlove you sure you ready to hurt ..love...love..love....co'z im inlove right now..:)
• India
19 May 11
congratulations from all of the mylotters.enjoy...just enjoy your life.their is nothing beyond this.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
Yes, love really hurts especially if it's a one-sided love. Right now, I just don't wanna feel anything. I want to be numb. I just want to be indifferent. I have poured out a lot of tears. I've had a lot of sleepless nights. I really don't know what this feeling is but one thing's for sure -- I want all the pain out of my system. It really really really hurts but I know everything will be alright.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
They say that you have not really experienced love completely if you have not been hurt. Pain makes love more real and intense. You'll be able to cherish more the love you have for a person when you've experienced being hurt. Love really hurts. In my case, what hurts more is that it's a one-sided love. I'm not really sure if the guy likes me or not so I consider it a one-sided love. It's love without expecting anything in return. Although they say that love should be unconditional, there are times when I still want this love to be reciprocated. This is what really hurts me.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
We feel good when our in love but once that our expectation end up on nothing we feel so depress and we think to much about it. The most hurt about love is when the time comes that he don't love me anymore and he still going with me but yet he have another girl already. It really hurt to be cheated in that way. It take too long before i recognize it in my past relationship.