should parents interfere to them?

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
May 21, 2011 8:24am CST
i am talking about the problem of there son/daughter with there wife/husband? my sister found out that her husband cheated him and even now his husband and the third party still have communication,and the problem is my sister wanted to separate to her husband but they have two kids.and now my question is should my parents interfere to them regarding to there problem?or should my parents will wait until the last result of there fighting?and why?
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9 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I think the parents have the right to speak out want they wish to give to their daughter for they have taken care of your sister for so long that someone will just hurt that way after asking for your sisters hand from your parents. But of course the last say has to be with your sister since she is the one directly involved with the situation. I hope things will work well for your sister and her children.
• United States
22 May 11
Hi there, Although the parents would love to keep them together I don't think they should interfere but more so be supportive. They can sit with them both and or your sister and explain their feelings but in terms of interfering that would not be advisable because maybe your sister is too hurt to forgive. My honest opinion is that perhaps your parents can sit and talk to her about pointing out, guiding and explaining to her that it is her decision. Whichever that decision they will support her with sound emotional support. Good luck to her and your family.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 May 11
Hi. asliah. Although the parents don't want to see their daughter, which is your sister unhappy, they should allow her to sort this out with her husband and his mistress. I know that they don't want to see her in pain, but her and her husband will need to handle this issue together on their own. Only when the situation starts to become violent and out of control, that displays physical violence then the parents should intervene and interfere then.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
21 May 11
I think that your parents shouldn't get involved, and let them to be. I am saying that your parents shouldn't concern about their children marriage and the welfare of their families, it was just like they are grown up, and they should have their own way to solve these issues. That is our lives, and we let it to be.
@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
22 May 11
Parents would always want the best for their children even to the point of being illogical and unfair. But when it comes to a grown child having marital problems, parents should refrain from interfering. Interference may only worsen the problem. Your parent's role is to assure your sister that no matter what happens, they will support her.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
21 May 11
The parents should interfere them and help their wards. After-all they are the only persons capable of giving morale support when their kids are down.No other persons are better than their parents.Since they have kids,it is better for the parents to slack back a little and see that the problem gets solved on its own.But if it has gone to the extreme, definitely parents should get their noses into this matter.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
21 May 11
If still the situation is going on, parents action should only protect and guide their daughter, give her moral support, if the result have been finalized parents should accept and take care about that - because if such things happened already nothing can change or even your parents cannot prevent the separation if your sister wanted - even for the sake of children. see you around
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
21 May 11
Well I think for the sake of Children's her parents must interfere and try to solve problem but as my above friend said, If decision making is on final stage than there is nothing but to accept it. I dont know why people do such silly things after marriage. If they wanted to do cheating than why the get married?
• India
21 May 11
Parents should pitch in now to solve the issue. It's of no use when they come into picture once everything is out of hands. They should try & sort out this matter as soon as possible before it becomes even more worse.