Loneliness

May 21, 2011 7:10pm CST
Many of us would say that singleness is wrapped up with loneliness. Loneliness is a state of a moment that would strike to everyone regardless of what status of life you are in. what is important perhaps is to recognize it causes. Live the present moment and live life one day of a time. Am a single that live beyond loneliness. Believe that someone loves you unconditionally then, you will not be always lonely.
7 responses
@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
22 May 11
I think being single doesn't cause loneliness. Life has roads. If you opt for the road to loneliness, then you will certainly be lonely for th rest of your life. There are lots of people who loves and you must give importance to them.
24 May 11
Yes, when you are happy you are not lonely. Choose and decide to be happy and you will be away from loneliness.
• India
22 May 11
i dont agree with u not being with a boy or a gril would how come make a person single dont we have other people aroud us FRIENDS,... being COMMITED to some one special is good but it might make u lonely after it over..
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
22 May 11
May be you are right, when i'm out of mood then irrespective of people of people around me i feel lonely , and there are even days when i stayed for myself and enjoying the time, so i can surely say that living alone will not lead to live lonely and a boring life.
• Southend-On-Sea, England
22 May 11
Being with people can sometimes be a lonelier situation than being alone. I've lived alone for 26 years and loved every minute of it - I never, ever feel lonely. I think to combat loneliness when living a solo life is to make friends with yourself and get to know not just what's on the surface of you as a person, but all your inner consciousness - a permanent and never-ending source of entertainment and interest. I suppose it's about self-love - not in an arrogant or self-admiring way - just in a self-respecting way and if you love yourself, then you will never be short of someone to love you, as you are always there with yourself. Other people can abandon us, but we don't abandon ourselves, and with a bit of work, we can all be our own best friends.
• United States
22 May 11
I think people shouldn't feel lonely if they are single because there are people who don't have anybody in their lives and they are out and about with their lives. I think people should appreciate their relationship status and wait for someone to pop up in their lives. Because even when you think life has let down, it always get you right up and swipe you off your feet.
• Philippines
22 May 11
hmm.. its better to be lonely than to feel badly.. If I'm alone, I'm more content with the situation i have now.. Even if i don't really feel so happy ..than get hurt.. i know that someone loves me and i love him too. but just i cant express it to him.. coz' im scared to get hurt.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
22 May 11
A few people like loneliness. Of course those who are in love with another and that too in 20s or 30s will certainly be after that person and try to contact over phone or meet in person. When you are alone and that too when you are young you must channelise your energies in the right direction and not squander in unwanted deeds/things.