miscarriage

@lajonez (477)
Poland
May 24, 2011 4:55pm CST
3 weeks ago I lost baby, I was 12 weeks pregnant and I dont know what to do to feel better :/ I'm in depression, maybe someone have some good ideas how to deal with that loss... I'm feeling like I lost part of myself
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@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
30 May 11
I feel for you. I had a miscarriage at 8weeks it was a planned pregnancy. I was totally distraught. It was the worst week of my life and then my rabbit was mauled by a dog and I was so down and depressed... I felt it hard to cope with life. I had 2 older children and felt lucky to have had them but I still felt a void.. I was so lost... Almost a year later I fell pregnant again and was fearful of it happening again, but was very lucky and fortunate to now have a new son... I am totally over the moon and in total see over him and feel so very lucky to have this miracle. I still wonder about what might have been, but tell myself there was obviously a problem and am lucky to now have a healthy child.. It helps to talk about it and you'll find your not alone. Your hormones would still be going crazy too... It is never easy and you'll never forget... You just have to move on and hold onto hope you will conceive again. All the best lajonez my thoughts and prayes are with you xo
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@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
30 May 11
It takes time to heal. It is really hard especially when you have told people the great news of being pregnant only to have to tell then that you have lost it... its ok when the timing is right it you will conceive again.. they say many people miscarriage the 1st time conceiving but its usually very early on before they even realise the are pregnant. Then continue on to have a healthy child in the future. I look forward to hearing some positive news in the further from you. Best if Luck
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
30 May 11
thank you a lot! you made me feel a little bit better. That would be my first child and I wanted to be pregnant just with my husband wanted to wait a little bit more time, it was not planned pregnancy but very welcomed and in this day our tradegy happend was already 12 weeks so I thought we're over that time we could loose baby... For my mom was also very bad time, our child would be her first grandchild :( Now it passed already 1 month after and I'm still not fine
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@jameygc (452)
• United States
27 May 11
I am very for your lost Lajonez, I have never been in your shoes but I am a mother and when I got pregnant had that fear all the time. It is horrible just to think about it, I can't imagine if someday happen to me. There are no words that can make you feel better right now. Only I can tell is that the time is the only one who is going to make you feel better. Meanwhile, try to keep your mind busy in other things. Things you like to do or try something new, something you always wanted to do. I hope you start to feel better soon.
@jameygc (452)
• United States
29 May 11
You always is going to remember this but every day you are going to feel stronger. You will see.
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
27 May 11
It happend exactly one month ago and today I'm feeling even worse I was crying almost all day :/
• United States
25 May 11
I am really sorry you lost your baby. This feeling I do know well as I lost 3. One before my first child and two after prior to my second child. It is very difficult to deal with and the only thing that will heal your empty heart is time. Do speak to your doctor as to the reasons, so that perhaps in the future you can prevent. Mine were due to stress and how I did not handle it well. I went online and see a daily strength support site where perhaps you may want to read and view the courage and or bond with others in the same situation. Strength, prayer and hope is what will get you through each day. Please be well and welcome to myLot. http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Miscarriage-Stillbirth/support-group
@lajonez (477)
• Poland
25 May 11
thank you, for sure i'm going to check out this page you gave me, I'm really greatfull, and I'm sorry for your loss too
• United States
27 May 11
I am also very sorry for your recent loss, let us vent and interact here and hope we can get through life smoothly. Thank you for my BR!