i think am ready to have my 13th baby..

@haqueen (236)
United States
May 26, 2011 12:39am CST
i heard from a a close relative of mine and i was just shocked but happy still because they have been able to raise the other 12 and the last one in in kindergarten and they are still smiling..worse of all they are all boys and if they get another gal they will try again until they get a boy.. ha! lol how nice what do you think. i think i love this family
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• United States
26 May 11
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a large family. By the grace of God, she is able to have as many children as she does. God makes no mistakes and he obviously have a plan for her and her family. Me personally don't see anything wrong with it, but i'm sure some negative person out there disagrees with me. Do what you do girl and God will let you know when it's time to stop having kids. But in the mean time LIVE your life to the fullest, LOVE your wonderful family God has blesed you with and LAUGH as much as possible because it's good for the soul...goodluck and may you continue to be blessed!
@haqueen (236)
• United States
26 May 11
AMEN sister. I cant help to believe the way you have put it but its surely a scary thing to me ..those are just too many to handle and yeah its also a blessing. thanks
• United States
26 May 11
I often see things more in a positive way because not everything is meant to be looked at negatively. I think its the ignorance in people that brings out the negative side. I honestly don't know how I would handle a family of that size but when you have the strength from God, I guess that's all that matters. Good luck to your friend and the best you can do is remain that good friend and keep your shoulder available if/when she needs it
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
26 May 11
I'm a bit confuse here. you said that they are all boys, but if they get a girl they will try again until they get a boy. But anyway, congratulation to your relatives. not many of people nowadays willing to have more than 5 kids, not to mention 13. Good job.
@haqueen (236)
• United States
26 May 11
all girls.. they plan to try harder until they get a boy.... its nice to call it a good job.. am having seconds thought on such an overcrowded family.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
31 May 11
I love big families. I come from a small family being the only child. I myself however have 3 daughters and a stepson all under the age of 8. We are thinking that in about another 4 or 5 years we may consider another one. I feel as if there is enough love to go around and the family is not struggling and the children have everything they need then go for it. I admire the big families because they seem to always have things under control and the children seem to have more respect for others. I also like small families too as you can put all your attention on just 1 or 2 children and not 10. I love families of all sizes.
@Bellapop (1279)
26 May 11
13? This sounds a shock but very good news at the same time, I always feel that big families are a privilege and being able to have 13 children is very good luck. I wonder how they manage economically but I suppose you have the tickets to help out and there is always a way around this so money is not really a problem or an obstacle to having lots of children. Good luck to them and congratulations!
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
26 May 11
Children are really an investment nowadays. You spend more during the time that they are young but you will reap joy when they get older specially if you could raise them well. If life is not tough like what I am experiencing now, I would want to have many children. But I don't like to compromise their future and I would like to provide not only their needs but also some of their wants. Due to financial difficulty, I choose to have 2 children only but I am working hard to give them the best especially in education.
@haqueen (236)
• United States
26 May 11
I would only bring children to this world if i can care for them. but your rite ..they are a blessing. I appreciate this family they have strong parents...who care for them and love them much and also they can provide for them. less of that it would have been unfair for this 13-children thanks
• Philippines
26 May 11
Well I would congratulate to your close relative because God blessed them with many children your close relative sooo lucky...
@haqueen (236)
• United States
26 May 11
yeah its a blessing but some blessing are not meant to be for one person.. you'll find in the long run might fail to take care of them kids because its too much of a burden..but i believe God cares for his own. thanks