His children against remarriage.
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6427)
Vietnam
May 27, 2011 2:21am CST
His wife died when he was young and his children are still small. He did so in order to raise children.
When they grow up, everyone living and working in a different place. They are living away from him. None of them can be with his sickness, disease and old age with his share.
What they can do is hire a maid to him and every month they send money to his spending.
But he always felt lonely. He wanted someone to neighboring can confide and share their lives. He has found a match, a situation similar to his remarriage.
However, the children's objections. They say he was old, should not remarried to the galaxy ridicule. He is suffering heart.
If I were his children, so I'll definitely support him.
How about you?
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7 responses
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
28 May 11
i will allow him to be married again. what's wrong if he is old? as long as he is not marrying someone too young for him and as long as he will be happy and that the girl he'll marry will have a clean intention about marrying him then for me there's no problem. of course, i would want him to be happy till his last breath.
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@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
28 May 11
tkonlinevn,
I do not think we can really support either party without listening and knowing certain facts.
The case of the children's objections could be valid in a sense he is already pass his prime for a young bride who will only be suffering when aging and sickness catches up with him. It will just be unfair for both parties.
Sometimes, it could be due to the family's concern when the bride is relatively young and that the intentions are more than merely marriage. I am sure you are no stranger to legal tussles for the property, estate and/or wealth.
On the other hand, if the other party is of relative age then age and health will also be on everyone's concern when the bride takes a turn in health. Given the medical cost today, I am sure there will be plenty of concern on everyone's mind and pockets.
@larish (2263)
• Philippines
30 May 11
It is so sad that his children doesn't want him to marry again. A friend of mine is also against his mom to remarry but his reason was different since her mom and her lover has 30 years age gap. He thought that the guy is just taking advantage of his mom. If they married, he'll have the rights to his mom's estate and money. He also fear that the guy will just leave his mom if he gets all her assets. As of now, he was doing his best to stop his mom for marrying this guy.
I am not sure if I am making sense here but my point is that the children might have other reason why they are stopping their dad for remarrying just like my friend. Did I mentioned that my friend's mom is 60 and the guy is age 30-32?
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
27 May 11
I would think his children would be happy to have someone taking care of him and being with him since they can't. He has a right to be happy and not feel so lonely. It seems the children are being selfish. Maybe they are more worried about his estate than his happiness.
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
27 May 11
I would definitely move on. He raised his children and now they have families. There is reason for him to be lonely all the time. In fact, this may help his health. I think his children are being somewhat selfish. I hope he decides to do something for himself now. Best Wishes!
@stanley777 (9401)
• Philippines
27 May 11
It would be okay if he remarried, all his responsibilities are done- they should just give him a chance to be happy until he die. Maybe his children are just worried of him, that his heart might get broken. 
But at least he'll love and be happy again.
But at least he'll love and be happy again.