a back-fighter

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
May 28, 2011 9:22am CST
we all know that its hard to be friendly to those people who have this kind of attitude,a back-fighter,and i really hate this kind of person in society,especially when that person is your relative or friend for so long,sometimes we dont know who are those back-fighter so hard to avoid them unless you found out that they possessed this attitude. do you still show any respect or deal to this kind of person??? have you encounter this back-fighter??what will you do if your best friend or close relative did this to you??
5 responses
• Philippines
29 May 11
I avoid these kind of people as much as possible. I'm gaining nothing by engaging them. I'd just worry what they'll say behind my back after if I talk to them. Such a waste of effort.
@abidu96 (13)
• India
29 May 11
Yeah !! Back fighters are soooo much annoying. I think people should accept thheor mistakes at times, atleast I do. It is really bad when people back-foght theor teachers and think they have done a good job, but in real they are the real LOOSERS !! As some one said ' Dont comment to win arguements, sometimes you loose your beloved ones too in doing so....... '
• India
28 May 11
I have one friend of this kind. I usually try to avoid him. I am totally agreeing with you.They always cause trouble to our mind and we will be in an angry mood.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
28 May 11
I actually know some people like that, from work, and from family members too. I would avoid to talk to them seriously, not even a full conversation too. So, that is no point to talk to people like that. My advice to those people, be respectful, and be kind in language too. Otherwise, people would also act the same way against you.
• United States
29 May 11
Though I feel that I am a very respectable person, I do have feelings and back fighters are something I cannot allow and totally dislike. So for me basically I can be amicable and simply distance myself from such people. In other words if I must encounter them somewhere I will greet but not really friend too much.