For Ladies

Philippines
May 30, 2011 12:33pm CST
For the ladies, do you feel flattered if a man whistles at you while you are walking around? Do you feel good about it or do you feel like you are disrespected? And for the guys, what does it really mean to you if you whistle to a lady?
8 responses
aprilsong
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
31 May 11
I will be angry and not feel been flattered at all. I think it is a way of disrespecting.
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cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
How I wish some gentlemen here will read these thoughts here and somewhat respond and share their thoughts as well.
Jessi
@Jessi_T (379)
• United States
30 May 11
As a lady I do not feel flattered when someone whistles at me. I find it downgrading. I am not a dog. I do not need whistled at and I never found myself to be much to look at. I find it downgrading and disrespectful.
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cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
well, it's just normal to feel that way. We have different thoughts and it's ok to feel that way..
larish
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
31 May 11
It is rude if a guy whistle on me. I would never like it. If it is a way for him/them to admire me then I think it is time for him/them to think of a creative way to flatter me and not just a whistle.
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
yes you're right. There are many simple ways to show your appreciation to a lady. Why just whistle..
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Xansus
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
1 Jun 11
I don't like doing it(never did it ) but some guys do it , i think it expresses for their attraction :D I never did it and i don't think i will :)
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
wow.. the only gentleman who responded. I appreciate it and I wonder if there are some other guys out there who has the same thought as you.. :)
tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
31 May 11
hello, I feel really disrespected when other guys whistle me when I am passing by. I am not just comfortable of this kind of action because i dont really know what does the guy means when they are whistling. Did they want to introduce there self or just want me to notice them?. Then why they act rudely.
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Well, some women might consider it as flattering but there are also some who will see it as a rude way of appreciating. And also, we don't know what their whistling means. Is it just appreciating women or disrespecting women. well we don't really know since we are not one of them.
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
30 May 11
I thik all women should be flattered when guys/men whistle. Why be a snob no matter what the men look like...just smile or wave or ignore and move on :) Be nice..they aren't hurting anyone. :)
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
yes, you're right..
ruby222
@ruby222 (4847)
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30 May 11
A few years ago i dare say that I would have had a few wolf whistles but as the years have passed this doesnt happen anymore! i always took it in good spirit, after all it is good to be admired sometimes!
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
yes, it's flattering though.
jahernandezrivas
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
30 May 11
I am a woman and it makes me feel good when someone does that.
cheatedaphrodite
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
• Philippines
30 May 11
me too but it depends to the man whistling.. lol