What's the easy way to break up with someone?

Philippines
May 30, 2011 4:45pm CST
Like the song goes... I know there's no easy way to break somebody's heart. but how do you guys do it? What's the easiest or the best way to break out from a relationship knowing that you can cause your partner pain and suffering. How do you deal with the guilt?
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6 responses
• Portugal
30 May 11
you should right away talk to the person and say how you feel. i say this for my own experience. my ex stopped waiting for us to be together without even tell me. so i just found out about his new girl reading that in his facebook status. he didnt explain much to me. i asked him what was that and he said sorry and gave a lame excuse for what happened. i think that no matter what you should always be honest and say the reasons why you dont want to be together anymore. of course we are hurting someone so we should at least be sweet and say sorry and explain. thats the best way to break up.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
31 May 11
You do what you gonna do. Someone has to feel the pain eventually. If someone would do the same to you, you might feel the pain too, that particular person also will have guilt over what she had done to you. So, if you don't love that person anymore, simply have a talk with her/him, that should solve the problem easily. Good luck!
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
31 May 11
There's really no easy way to break somebody's heart. Think lots of times first before doing so. Think of "why do you want a breakup? do you have any good reasons why you have to?" Be responsible enough in every decisions you make. Goodluck!
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
31 May 11
Breaking up with someone is never easy. But the best way is to be honest of your reason if it's a third party or if you fell out of love then say it. Do not add to the damage by lying. Feeling guilty will be gone once both of you started to move on from the relationship. Always think that it is better to part ways than stay and suffer.
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@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
31 May 11
hello, Yes, it is really easy to involved in a relationship but really difficult to break up because we know that we will hurt somebody's feeling and by that we feel guilt. I dont know how to deal with this guilt especially if I really hurt somebody I just let the wound heal first before I talk to him and tell that I can be his friend but anyway that is not that easy there are times that he is not ready to fix the problem with you. Okay I just let it be....
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• Bulgaria
30 May 11
I know what is break out relationship and pain is very big, but no way, because I would not be happy this person!I prefer say direct:All over!
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