Appropraite Action to Discussion Starter NOT Responding!

@visavis (5934)
Philippines
June 6, 2011 7:46am CST
I'm not questioning everybody here and asking question why are you posting your discussion - easy and plain answer to have your responses. The next question is, Are you stop from there as discussion starter? Do you have responsibility after you post your discussion and received responses? The plain answer is YES,must to reply back right? but why others are just throwing their discussion and post again another one and post again another one, until he/she did not accommodate all his/her discussion.. I just want to tell what I feel here about the matter, how about you?
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8 responses
@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
6 Jun 11
Hi visavis! While I undersand your frustration I do not think that there should be any form of penalty for those who have not yet understood what a 'dicussion' relly implies. They are already earning less than those who have understood because they don't comment back and further the topic. Some never understand, some have excuses, some wake up later on in their travels on myLot too. I have two of my own topics that are still unattended. There is a personal reason why I never followed up with one of them and the other... time passed and I took the liberty of checking your started topics. I went to page 10 where there are some from 7 months ago and, at that time, you fall into the same category I think we will just have to bear with them and try and convert them but unless that happens, no worries as it is their loss and not ours.
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@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
6 Jun 11
Indeed I have a folder with many topics where the OP has not commented yet and on days when I have nothing much going on here, I go to one of them and revive it
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
That is what we should do~ Sometimes we could share things much better than the starter as they never answered back and perhaps they don't know what to say or how to comment back~~
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
What if we take that place and help them comment to everyone there?? It help us and those who respond to their discussions~
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• Calgary, Alberta
6 Jun 11
,They have so many excuses to justify what they do but they can also testified our side , this is my suggestion home, they won't be able to make a new discussion unless they respond back to 3 people at least.For now the only thing we can do is ignore their discussions because they want to earn money if no one responded.Another one and I consider, make responding back much more rewarding to buy paying people who responds back so it's not going to be a one sided discussion anymore. People who make discussion chains shall be a rewarding in any form
• Calgary, Alberta
6 Jun 11
ooops i have typos, my voice recognition software have errors. i didnt say testify and didnt say home.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Your views and suggestion are good and make sense I hope the admin will include such thing in their plan in the future improvement if any... Wait and see.. actually I have a daubt that this discussion will be deleted (I just feel that my friend)... I hope so not
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• Calgary, Alberta
6 Jun 11
I think the two of us bump into the each other home in our response collector's "discussion" Admin should do something to motivate people to respond back. make responding back much more rewarding.
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
i myself are not fast in posting discussion or comment. since not all the time my hands and eyes are here in mylot. if only i have more time i would be glad to make more responses. but surely i would comments back to all who made responses on my discussion as a sign of being polite. i understand it comes as annoying when you post a response a no one get to answer you it is like the feel of being snob by the poster but maybe they have their own reasons..
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 11
Flower, I really like your avatar picture and your other pictures of .GIF format! 'The chicken looking for someone' picture is very cute!
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Me too CTHanum, I just thinking might be flower21 is her real action of dancing, she just take a shut... what do you think?
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Yeah I understand that my friend, but they should know that the reason they posted the discussion is getting our response (which put an effort).I like your said you response because sign of politeness that's true and thanks
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
dear friend, I take note with those mylotters who never respond to their topics and never go to any of their topic again. Just ignore and try not to comment to their topic,so you will not feel bad my friend. I also wonder how we will get to know them,if they don't care to inter-act with us. We are here to discuss and have some bonding with other members. Be friends with them..but,aware of those "hypocrites" and pretenders....they're just around too. have a great day always
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
It is fine for discussion starters who don't reply but hypocrites and pretenders?? How could I figure them out Jaiho??
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Thanks to your strong and wake up call for them....
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
@ CTH, You will find it yourself once you met one... i was fooled and believed they are good people. so i am much aware now. just be careful..or better keep a distant ..as they say,it's hard to trust people in the net.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
Oh, That is probably their habit~Hehe.. That question is always in my mind and I always keep asking the same question to myself why are this people are eager to start so many discussions-sometimes they posted the same discussion they have posted not long ago~ and not bother to reply back or they just give us a very short response that meaningless to me- 'Thank you for your response'.What' that thanks?? Am I in a discussion or just in a poll question like a reporter asking a question to people? I am not answering their question yet as they might be get deleted by admin if it is the same topic and only then I will answer their discussions and will give more than enough respond to them~ Actually I would like to thanked them because I could earn more because they make many discussions here!
@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
6 Jun 11
Way to go!
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
Like what Mike said at previous respond- purely because of the money. Yeah, that is one of my reasons too on why I am here in this site! So I will make more than a comment in their discussions~
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
We have discussed about this before so let them the starter with their dreams as people with action will do this!
@ravisivan (14089)
• India
6 Jun 11
I agreed philiphines boy ! I am now willing to start a discussion unless I am having time to reply. You have some members who are there to ask questions and initiate discussions only. when u initiate an interesting topic you will get more responses and you can respond when u get time. May be that is a strategy which people use. I do not want to initiate without selecting the best response. One good thing -- there is no time limit. u can post after best response is selected. have a good day.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I agreed with you and thanks you kabayan
@ravisivan (14089)
• India
6 Jun 11
what happened why did u give new name 'kabayan' or is it philipine word ? pl reply early. i am eager to know.
@ravisivan (14089)
• India
6 Jun 11
Thanks onlinebuxmaker kabayan ! (brother) How nice of u to have replied on seeing my remark. in fact I am having a lot of friends from philipines now. You are awake at 1.48 am fine have a good day
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hello Visavis, BRAVO! i admire you for showing off being this angry because it's a reality to some mylotters, specially pinoy lotters. but hey, there's a RANT interest, you could have put it there at first, am actually number ONE ranter but i think you have potential to cheer up and keep on ranting, because mylot does allow you so. OKAY, before we go off topic, let me say that people have priorities off line. like my experience to day, i was supposed to mylot when suddenly the carpenter came, and two helpers because they did some maintenance at home, i didn't get a chance to mylot nor have time to make discussions. i was so frustrated perse. it's hard to mylot now because i am tired and inability to think straight, i had to take tylenol every two to four hours... I do my best to comment on response, you know me, only when Iam available.
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I feel for you my friend. that's why i don't respond on their topics anymore, they "waste" my time. they take responders for granted. if the starter doesn't comment, then bye.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Yeah that is my first option now check and list it whose that mylotters who are blinded to other
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I have no intending to bump others here I just post my feelings about the situations here. Today I seen two or three discussion which having 10 responses but nothing response from starter. First, I assume may be have no time (time zone barrier) but I saw his/her another discussion roll on, oh this is not ok.. I continue observed and found same for other starter, the sad thing is those responders are make an effort to make comments and expecting response back but nothing...
@allknowing (130109)
• India
8 Jun 11
Most of us have done that when we just joined but once it gets into our system that commenting on responses is the essence of this site one never looks back. But sadly even those with years of experience are in the habit of just initiating topics and the responses are left high and dry. I have 8 such topics from a single user where I have responded and no comments received not only to my response but to all the others too. With a topic like this, I hope better sense will prevail and we will be able to get all users into the fold of 'hustle and bustle of activity'.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
8 Jun 11
Oh very bad experienced my friend, Oh may be also did not response sorry.. Anyway yeah even the oldies here are very lux or may be they forget... I hope in the long run as you said the new comer will realized what discussion implies..