i want to get married in 27
By julyeth
@julyeth (60)
Philippines
4 responses
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
So how many years will you still have to wait before we hear wedding bells?
It is really not about the age but the maturity that a person has which matters most when deciding to get married. There are people who are old but have the maturity of an 18 year old.
The decision to get married is also influenced by the priorities set by the person. Those who want to have a more stable life for their future family would tend to marry at a later age when they are already settled with their careers and has enough money to sustain a better future for their family. While those who really want to raise kids tend to marry at a much younger age. It is easier to have children when you are younger than when you are older.
Still, what is important in any marriages is that it is founded by love and the couples will try their best to work hard to make the marriage work.
It is really not about the age but the maturity that a person has which matters most when deciding to get married. There are people who are old but have the maturity of an 18 year old.
The decision to get married is also influenced by the priorities set by the person. Those who want to have a more stable life for their future family would tend to marry at a later age when they are already settled with their careers and has enough money to sustain a better future for their family. While those who really want to raise kids tend to marry at a much younger age. It is easier to have children when you are younger than when you are older.
Still, what is important in any marriages is that it is founded by love and the couples will try their best to work hard to make the marriage work.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Thanks for the BR julyeth. Although I think it is too soon to give it out.
Very typical of a Filipino family. We try to help out our family first before we think of ourselves. We like to see our parents live a better life, sort of giving back to them for the sacrifices that they've done. I think more blessings will come to those who would give more.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
9 Jun 11
I'm sorry, but you cannot know that. No one knows the future. No one knows when they will find their love. Some find it soon, some later.
I personally fell in love when I was 16 and I got married at 21.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
9 Jun 11
You can't plan things like that, they happen in their own way, in their own time.
I never expected to fall in love so young, it just happened that way. I didn't think I would even think about marriage until 30.
And for you, if you're already 23 and you aren't yet in a serious relationship, I wouldn't be expecting to be married in 4 years.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
If you think you are ready with marriage at that age, then do it. Getting married can not be planned, I tell you. Right man comes unexpectedly and sometimes you have to act fast before he's gone so better not to set an age standard for getting married. let it comes to you as natural. I got married at age 26 and still encounter so many trials with the right man I married. Take it slowly and wisely and fast because women have biological clock that is very important in terms of a happy marriage.
