What if your family does not appreciates your presents?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
June 11, 2011 4:24am CST
A pleasant day to you fellow mylotter,
I feel terribly sorry for myself as my presence here in our home does not really appreciated by my family members. As my mom, before she appreciates me because I used to give her money and supply some of her financial needs as my salary is regularly coming every month. But now since I dont have a regular monthly income and dont have a stable job as of the moment, my presence here in our home does not really a big deal for her. As I feel that she is not that proud that I am here. But before, whenever I am here staying at our home, she almost wants to talk to me that often as she does not want to go out without me at her side.
And now, I am just thinking, the only thing important to my family member is the money that I always give to them. As I do somehow supply them of their financial needs. Since, I dont have a regular monthly income now, my presence is not that important. No appreciation at all.
There are times, I am thinking, why life is like this.
If you were on my shoe, how would you treat this matter? How and what will you feel if your family members does not appreciates your presence?
2 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
hi,
well that situation was happen to me i think that when i was in high school,i was really pity depress during that time because i was just nothing,but i pursue to changed that,i dont know how but gradually it changed,so thankful because now i really feel my presence as part of the family.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
If you wanna be appreciated, get a job. As for the money issue, I don't think a person can be that hollow. Besides, they family. Maybe they need money more than before that's why they kind of ignore you. Maybe they're angry at you but couldn't bring it up because it's your life and you should be responsible on whatever happens with it. If you don't wanna get a job, then it's your choice.


