Does anyone like long drawn out discussions?

@barehugs (8973)
Canada
June 12, 2011 8:44pm CST
I for one do not like lengthy posts, and frankly I don't even read them. There are no discussions on myLot that cannot be started with a minimum of 8 to 10 lines. If you're having trouble expressing much in few words, write it first and then go back over it with the idea of making it concise and to the point. When you do this you will be able to take out the access words. Do wordy Posts bother you? What method do you use to write concise discussions?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Jun 11
To each his own! There are some things that just cannot be condensed into a few words and when a topic is lengthy then there is usally much more to comment back to, which means that we can leave a more interesting response with more chance that the user who started the topic will come back and comment so that we can go back angain, furthering the topic. Why should there be a limit to the number of lines needed to start a topic? Surely there is no limit to how much we can say when we start a conversatin offline, and that is all we are doing here, conversing. If you find a topic too long then skip it and move on to a shorter one surely? To suggest that others should limit their posts though is not something that myLot suggest - indeed to the left of the box when we are typing myLot tell us: "Please be as descriptive as possible". There must be a reason why they tell us that too
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
To each his own it's plain to see, To walk alone you have to be - I see what you mean here, its like, not being able to see the forest for the trees. Of course there should be no limit to the number of lines in a Post. I added that suggestion because- if the recipe calls for 1 cup of sugar, the addition of 2 cups, will surly spoil the cake. And yes we are conversing, but if you can say it with fewer words, using shorter sentences, and less lines, For God's sake do it!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 11
I would prefer medium length discussions. Long discussion makes my eyes teary and I tend to lose concentration and forget what was written in the first para when I finish reading the whole discussion. Since most of us are not writers, people tend to drag their words without realizing that they are beating around the bush which makes reading boring and end up not responding to the discussion. I try to make my discussion simple, short and direct to the point so my readers are not bored. Since I think and type at the same time, I need not go chopping my words to shorten it. My English vocabs are limited so there is no way that I can write a lengthy discussions that might only confuse my readers.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
15 Jun 11
Lets face it! I know when I'm beat! Allow me to change my mind and say that if the Post is well written, full of description, and really takes the reader somewhere, I could read it all afternoon. But alas, this seldom happens, more often tan not, the post is filled with lack-luster words that add nothing to the piece, and very little if any description. Then 4 lines is enough, or even too much for me. Thanks for your comment!
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
13 Jun 11
I think some do require more than 10 lines. when it comes to startng a post. But as far as answering them I never can write more than four lines. I just cant think of putting my answers any other way to making them longer.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
Just think of it as you would a love letter. First, tell him how wonderful he is, and then how much you miss him, then ask him when he can come by your place, and finally tell him 'at least once' how much you love him. The nice thing about a love letter is that you can repeat yourself as many times as you like, and you can be sure he will never get tired of reading your lines. (I hope this helps!) Thanks for your response!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
It actually depends on how the person writes the discussion. If we're talking about a long blabbering without white spaces (the spaces in between paragraphs) and the paragraphs aren't split, then that is horror for me. I do get that most people get carried away by talking and responding to discussions, I do that too. However, I would certainly appreciate it if people were to look into how they express themselves without punishing the reader. Have a great day in MyLot!
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
Yes, I am with you there. A whole page without a break can be daunting. I'm sure that some get so caught up in their post that they forget about sentence structure,and spelling to say nothing of English grammar. I love the challenge of reading the piece after I've written it with the object of deleting every unnecessary word, and its amazing how many there are hanging in there.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
13 Jun 11
I try to keep mine short, but if I feel a rant coming on they can get away from me. You are right though, I do not read long drawn out discussions.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
That's interesting! We are both farmers, and we like to get right to the point. Reminds me of the blond who, while driving to town, saw a farmer sitting in a row-boat, in his plowed field. She stopped the car and hollered, "Hey, What you doing out there in a row boat?" The farmer yelled back," I'm going fishing, wanna come?" "I would love to," she replied, "but I can't swim!"
• United States
14 Jun 11
I don't have any problem with wordy posts. Sometimes posts need a lot of words to make sure they get a message across. Lack of words can be more of a problem sometimes. Because they don't get the message across.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
Well I am sure not many myLotters are having a problem getting the message across, because they are quite often very wordy. Words don't make the post, its the ideas, and situations, that stick in your mind. Post your thoughts (in as few words as possible) use descriptive language, good English, be concise, and myLot members will enjoy your posts.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
24 Jun 11
Personally I think overall there is Good and bad to both. Depending on what a person is really needing or wanting to talk about. I have seen many times where a person starts a discussion making it only like 2 paragraphs leaving you hanging, and others that really make a point. Even when others respond back same there. Overall, I think it depends on the situation, and discussion. Mine are usually quite lengthy and I feel it is up to others to want to respond back or not, but for me it is me and what is happening these days.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Jun 11
barehugs you are wrong as some discussions like some I have made just cannot be carried out in your silly ten lines. sometimes we tell a short story to illustrate our discussion.you know what you are perfectly welcome to bypass my discussions anytime if you are so bothered.I know others here are not by the number of responses I have received. Not every discussion topic will fit into your precise little niche. so for those who do not mind our longer discussions I say to each his or her own. I am glad that mylot does not follow your plan and lets us do as we see fit as long as we do not break any mylot rules. I use whatever length will get my job done intelligently and clearly.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Jun 11
I'll go right along with you on the,"to each his own writing style." of course everyone should do his/her own thing.(they will anyway!) However I was taken slightly out of context, which was all my own fault! I meant to say, "If you have something to say, say it and be done, rather than diddling around using words needlessly to beat around the bush, without adding anything to the post." (like I'm doing now!) You go right ahead, Hat, and use whatever length you need to get the job done intelligently and clearly!
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
I don''t know about you but I tend to respond in a very long lines. Nobody had told if they didn't like my style of responding or posting discussion but I can see why some people prefer the short lines rather than the long lines. I don't want to defend myself but I like you to know that there are many factors why I often respond in what you call 'a long-winded way.' One of the factors is that I have too much to say to a given topic. Second, I have been trained to use formal English which applies more words than necessary. Third, I mince my words but sometimes the mincing loses the context of what I have to say. Fourth, the first amendment. But I do know when to stop and reflect if my response or topic is getting way out of hand. I usually revise and edit, as you said but I don't create my responses or topics without any substances. Word choice is very important. As a card-carrying writer, it's one of the 'rules' of the job. I know that but sometimes the right to express is more important than number of words or number of lines. I also believe in the phrase ' please be descriptive as possible'. I rest my case.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
14 Jun 11
Well jeanney, you said a mouthful there! Your writing style is just fine with me. You have a knack of saying what you think, and thinking as you write. I like this because it makes your pieces interesting, and uncluttered. Word choice is so important, and your choice of words is phenomenal. Case dismissed!
• United States
13 Jun 11
I, preferably, want an intelligent conversation. Which would take more than your line requirements. I am here to make people think. Make them learn. Make them see things and feel things they haven't. Frankly, if you can't be bothered to read a bit more, then you should answer all the Facebook and the appropriate age for whatever questions.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Jun 11
A good writer can say many things with a few descriptive words. Of course not everyone has the expertise required to write well, nor should they be so required! Lets just say,"Try to express yourself as best you can, using the Queens English lightly and diligently!"