What if?

Philippines
June 13, 2011 6:17pm CST
What if she commit mistakes again? Should I still forgive then forget her?
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5 responses
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
14 Jun 11
You didn't give us much information to know what she has done. I feel that anybody can make a mistake & should be forgiven!!! However, if they continue to make the same mistake over & over, is it really a mistake or are they just trying to take advantage of us??? I believe in forgiving the first time & possible even the second time. If she continues making the same mistake over & over, I believe I'd just forget about her as she's probably not the right girl for you!!!
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
Her mistakes is something personal that I need not explain in details. It is not money matter but something emotional.
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@783748 (178)
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
I don't wanna sound so preachy but like what the bible says, forgive 70 times 7 times. That means forgiveness has no limit. Learning how to forgive is not easy but we are all called to forgive the ones who hurt us. You can't really forget what your girlfriend did because it would be already part of your memories but you have to still forgive her. Being able to forgive is one good sign of moving on.
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
You're right! Although, I can't totally forget what she did but to linger with her will cause to always remember.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Jun 11
A very difficult question.I think it should be forgiven because a forgiveness leads to new error.I know it's pretty hard when you love someone but better to show him that there must be respect first and then talk about love.Right buddy?
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
Yes, I believe all of us deserves a second chance. Just like the saying "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." If the person is really sincere, she will be willing to change for you and make sure that you will feel better with her. With that is gaining your trust.. If you think that she is doing it again, then that is the time that you would think twice. Think if it is worth it.
• Canada
14 Jun 11
what kind of mistake did she make? if you think that you cant take anymore his faults then let go. but if you think that you can accept his fault, as part of relationship is to forgive then stay.iether way, the only one who can answer that is yourself.