If you want a girlfriend like Angelina Jolie, you should try to be like Brad Pit
By debs90
@debs90 (547)
India
June 14, 2011 6:45am CST
I find many people complaining about their girlfriends/wives or boyfriends/wives that they are not good. I would like to have a better girlfriend. They never think about themselves. They want a girlfriend like Angelina Jolie but never thinks that he does not have 10% of the caliber Brad Pitt has. So, instead of complaining about their partners they should think are they worthy of getting any better? Its good to have big dreams but that should not be far away from reality....
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
14 Jun 11
This is so true! I really agree with this statement! I do hear so many people that complain about their partner. But they dont really see the parts they play in it and where they may be lacking. I refrain from discussing my husband most of the time. We have our little bothersome traits that annoy one another. Like I am not very organized and he throws everything away. But we love one another greatly besides all things and we took a vow. That both of us take seriously!! We base our dreams together.
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You are absolutely correct..people need to look at themselves before they start expecting from others. @Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jun 11
debs hi you know it sort of sickens me to think that boys actually complain their girls are not a copy of a hollywood star like Angelina Jolie or the girls bitach that their boyfriends are not a copy of Brad Pits? Why pattern people after movie stars? their personality's are no different than any other persons and a lot of movie stars make lousy mates as they cheat and lie and are unfaithful. I would rather my mate
pattern himself after someone who is a wonderful man, not a movie star.
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
14 Jun 11
I find this discussion amusing.
I think it is great that finally a man is saying hey dude maybe its not her. Men are so quick to pick out the flaws in the female that they totally forget about them self. My favorite is when the male is like "why is it every girl I get starts out good but turns out the same" wow! really?! I look at them and say what does everyone of those girls have in common...........they have dated you!
My boyfriend does not realize it but he has a huge impact on how I act now. When I met him I was totally different but that was before he had shown me the real him and treated me like crap that I started to give him the same treatment. Now he says I am like his ex-girlfriends. When I first got with him and he would tell me about his ex's I would tell him wow I would never do that she is psycho. 2 years have passed and he says I am just like them. He does not realize that he has made me that way. I believe in the saying "treat others the way you want to be treated" well he treat me like crap and now I return the favor without even thinking. I have told him this and we are both working out the kinks and working on retraining ourselves. But guys are always quick to pick our things they do not like about the women when women are to quick to just settle with anything!
I think it is great that finally a man is saying hey dude maybe its not her. Men are so quick to pick out the flaws in the female that they totally forget about them self. My favorite is when the male is like "why is it every girl I get starts out good but turns out the same" wow! really?! I look at them and say what does everyone of those girls have in common...........they have dated you! My boyfriend does not realize it but he has a huge impact on how I act now. When I met him I was totally different but that was before he had shown me the real him and treated me like crap that I started to give him the same treatment. Now he says I am like his ex-girlfriends. When I first got with him and he would tell me about his ex's I would tell him wow I would never do that she is psycho. 2 years have passed and he says I am just like them. He does not realize that he has made me that way. I believe in the saying "treat others the way you want to be treated" well he treat me like crap and now I return the favor without even thinking. I have told him this and we are both working out the kinks and working on retraining ourselves. But guys are always quick to pick our things they do not like about the women when women are to quick to just settle with anything!@debs90 (547)
• India
14 Jun 11
That is what I was trying to say. I heard that sort of things from others. Many of my friends shared their personal experiences. All of them were quite similar. You have your personal experience. Its a mindset of people and they should try to change themselves rather than changing theirr partners.
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@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Well, that's the reality that most people think. They expect so much from their partner but does not think how they are to them. I guess, before we dream of having an Angelina Jolie look-alike as our partner, we must think first if we are at par enough to be like Brad Pitt as what you have said. LOL!
