don't love when you are lonely, love when you are ready.
By dyeni23
@dyeni23 (128)
June 15, 2011 7:19am CST
I was struck when I saw this. It tells alot. Because often times, this tends to happen, yes? When you are being consoled after being heartbroken and in a snap! you are thinking that it's love and at the end of the day, you realized it wasn't. And this realization tends to break your heart again.:( As we all know, everything heals with time, and we shouldn't rush things especially when its the heart we are dealing with. Cos when we do, it tends to fail.
what can you say about this?
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5 responses
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
well i think i can't go against.. but still i can't force myself not to love which is more inevitable when you are lonely..
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@famee87 (29)
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16 Jun 11
hello dyeni :)
i would definitely agree with you. love is not found only in loneliness. some people believe that in order to forget one, you have to find another. but, not in love. for me, if you engage in a new relationship right away after a broken heart, you will only use the new love to cover up with the pain you are dealing with. yes, it might ease your pain but it's not love at all. don't make your hurts as excuse to be in another relationship right away. coz in the end, you will not only hurt yourself, but also, you will definitely hurt your partner. so take your time before telling your self that you are inlove AGAIN. don't be in a rush. and once you are ready, love will find its way to you :)
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Jun 11
Yes i think it happens to me, so i believe. What great advice you offer us all here, i wonder how many people will take it on board in their own life. I am recently single and havn't wanted any contact with my ex but when he sends me messages when i am lonely it makes me wish we were together even though i would never tell him that.
@dyeni23 (128)
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18 Jun 11
Hi! Thanks for the compliment. :) I just ended a 3years relationship last month. And so, this is a struggle for me too. Every time He sends messages, with all the sweetest stuffs and all, I just remind myself of why I ended our relationship. I hope everybody will have the strength to protect their hearts above all rest.
@soccerbai123 (274)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
most people tend to find a so-called new loved to replace the one that they have loved. they think that if they find this new love, they will forget about the past love and will not feel hurt anymore. i was once like that but realized it did not change a thing. i realized time heals all wounds, not new love heals all wounds
