how to know if your friend is really a good friend you can trust ?

United States
June 19, 2011 12:21pm CST
how would you know if a friend is really one , and is not interested in your money or other advantages you have, furthermore ,how to know if i can trust him or her ??
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
20 Jun 11
hi overtoom, this is first response to your discussion after accepting your friendship, you are right but some times money will be the main criteria also,so times we require money or they require money ,we have to help each other when ever is possible,i too also what ever in my extent i can offer it to my friend,have a nice day
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
21 Jun 11
hi overtoom, thanks for the response,though money minded people are also friends,if they repay the money in time,that good for them and us also,we have to help our friends when they are in need of money,but that is up to some extent,before giving think that, that money may be come back and then you can it,if he pays it is good if not next time do not give money to him/her,have a nice day
• United States
21 Jun 11
ah :) thank you for the response and for helping me :)- --- oh yeah that is a good way of thinking in life :) -i now totaly agree with you.yeah ,cause having momney (even not rich ) without being able to help a friend in need would mean that we've got no heart :)
• United States
20 Jun 11
HMM , ok mutual help yeah that sounds good - but how about some of them who cam just for that money ??
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
19 Jun 11
I can tell you that sooner or later their shows if a friend is true or not. Because friends collect in need is known. true friend will always help you in a difficult situation will encourage kshte give you advice. So you know what your friend and what not.
• United States
20 Jun 11
thanks :)- ok i'm gonna observe their behavior and i'm afraid sometimes to learn that they've really played with me all this time :( ---- but tht's ok tht's the stake of it :) thank you
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
You will get to know your friends the more you are with them. I know my friends are not after anything from me because i don't have much money,not even spare money to treat them. So,i am sure they are not after money and any advantages from me. You need to know your friends from your own choice/set of friends that you have/had. I trust my friends because they trusted me more than i thought they will ever trust me. have a good day and welcome to mylot
• United States
19 Jun 11
hmm yeah that's an advantage , but how to make the right choice if there's some good actors . but i guess its a matter of heart feeling to choose tht ??
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
19 Jun 11
The only way to know if that person is a true friend is to ask him to help you when you go through a difficult situation;if he;'s willing to help without expecting any benefit in exchange except your gratitude,I suppose you can call that person a true friend.
• United States
19 Jun 11
Hmm yeah k , that sounds a good idea , i guess i'd try this in the winter holidays and ask him to help me for something quite hard to do in that period :)