do you believed in a 13th year itch in a marriage life?

Philippines
June 25, 2011 8:20pm CST
Maybe I am one in a thousand who will be believing on this because I experienced it ..It was on my 12th to 13th year marriage life when I was separated from my husband.It was a horrifying one never in my mind that it will happened to my family.It was Nov 2008 when he talked to me that we need to separate each other he turns on to me accusing me that i had an illicit affair and God knows that i dont have any since my younger years Im so loyal and honest and he is the only boyfriend and become my husband..I was shocked but come march 2009 he left our conjugal home and it was jan.2009 i learned that his girlfriend already pregnant..before he is already womanizing but i never mind at all he is just flirting..but when he got pregnant his younger girlfriend he left us totally not even supporting his daughter..and the worst was he left nothing to us even a single pennies..and so much of debt too.I am a typical abused wife for 13 years...physically and emotionally.. with all honesty id been a good wife to him a loving one although im working and managed our business still i never forget my obligations to him i dont have any vices I am a doting mom and wife..thats why when he said it and left us it was totally shocking and devastating to our lives..its always my question where did i go wrong?now he is living with his other woman with his 2 year old baby boy...now tell me its just a coincidence or it really happened to a marriage when that year comes?
6 responses
• China
27 Jun 11
Wow, in China, many people say that there's 7th year itchy and even 3rd year ithy in a marriage life. I do believe it. But i dont think this kind of ithy bring abt the betay and divorce. Yeah, there's no one couple alike totally in life. They love each other and live together because they pass the test of time. Anyway, u're single now, so dont dwell in the past. Because of the divorce u'll have the chance to meet another good man. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
yes meyi hope we have divorced here still working on to that law ...looking forward to have it soon.\yes i was able to managed my life now and even im single im happy and contented in my new life as long as my daughter is with me..im no longer dwelling on my past im always looking forward for my future...thnaks you dear.
@godfever (21)
27 Jun 11
i think that it is possibl e// but it correctly tell by the person who did it .. and it may have so many less casess like that .. or it may be possible but a person can feel hesitate for it .. dnt know why but i think it
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
yes godfever you ahve the point here..thanks too..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
I do not thnk that is true. People who loves each other and work hard to keep their relationship strong wont fall apart no matter what.
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
yes chiyosan you have the point..but to others they have the reasons why it happened and it always happened for a reason.thanks ..
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Jun 11
nope. i have been married for 23 years and have not been itchy at all! lol
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
good for you and hopefully you wont experienced what i experienced...thanks
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
I'm not married but I am in a relationship with my first and only girlfriend for more than nine years now, and I pray to God no such events should happen to us. I feel bad for you and mad at that guy. It sets me just high up bewildered and furious hearing how he put the blamed on you to cover his stupidity. Anyway, I hope you get to live your life better without such a guy and that that guy gets what he deserves.
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
yes my dear thanks a lot...well im happy even im single mom now...im happy for you to work hard for ur relationship be man good bf to ur gf ok?im happy for your relationship keep it up..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
22 Jul 11
Hi Janebernal, Thats really sorry to hear of things happened. But in real there is not any itchy year in marriage life. Sometimes men changes mind and their needs and ends up the beautiful relationship of a family. Marriage life is not bad, but it is because of man uncontrolled mind and action makes it worse. I have been for 23 years now, no itchy stuffs. God bless you!