do you know the feeling of lonely because other have lovers and you dont have?

Philippines
June 29, 2011 9:56am CST
unfortunately, I do know that feeling. it really makes me frustrate, that sometimes i think that if theirs wrong about me or am i ugly or what?. Because I always dreamed of who will be the first man that will make my heart beat fast since high school but then, until now, that I finished my studies, passed my board still, theirs none. I really felt that I am alone especially going out such as going to mall or clubs and especially when my friends bring their boyfriend LOL!. My Mom always told us that no boyfriend during my school days, as a obedient child, i follow them, but now, i am free to get in to relationship, but no one will.But then, I am still young, not losing hope and just praying that my Knight and shining armor would come in a right time.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
You've said it yourself! You're young, you're free! Just enjoy being single and the right person might just be there standing around the corner. Make yourself believe that you are beautiful! Never entertain thoughts that you're ugly that's why you're single. If I could only turn back time I would have remained single till I'm 30. Not that I regret my choice but i just miss being single again.
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
ahh.. thanks for the advice Toni! I really hope that HE will find me! lol.And definitely i will enjoy my Single Life to the fullest. And will not entertain anymore my unwanted thought!.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
scarface, just keep your eyes open to possibilities. your soulmate might just be sitting around the corner.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jun 11
Don't worry you are quite young , you mill meet a guy. BTW i don't understand why woman gives so much importance to men in their life rather than career and own family , i have been through bad break ups now i understand that career and family matters most maybe someday you will too. Most romances ends in 5 year after that people just go along with each other , just for sake of kids the go on and also at that time they have no career and due to being older and married they don't find guys interested in them and also many fear to even reveal these feelings to themselves for sake of society, religion. But that's my thought no need to make them yours. Just try to not to be too eager and say yes to first guy who proposes you , guy doesn't like clingy girls and girls who are independent on them. They like girls who are bit challenge and are not easy , easy girls can never earn guys respect.Best of luck
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
thanks for the advice Akan, one of the reason maybe that i am still single right now is that I am not easy to get and choosy, my friends always said that. Because it is also my thought that I cant earn men respect if they will easily get me and also i do have my reputation and dignity that I can offer to my self and if the time comes ( meet my knight and shining armor) i would be proud of what i do.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
18 Jul 11
Hi Princess, This is feeling of every teenagers and it gives a sort of loneliness but those who have more friends will never feel this. Anyways in life, a partner is sure for everyone. So the feeling of loneliness will vanish off as time passes.Cheers!!
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Its very typical to feel envy whenever we saw a couple being too sweet to each other. BUt always put in mind that everybody has its fair share in love. You dont know when is your time but ultimately the right time will eventually come. I advised you not to be in a hurry because when you do you will just end up with a wrong man and regret that you've entered in such a relationship.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
I don't get lonely because I don't have a boyfriend because I have lots of male friends whom I can enjoy with and have fun with. You are still young and you don't have to force your self in having a relationship since relationship does not happen overnight. Be what you are, enjoy your time and you'll have your own time and the right man in right place and time.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
I don't know how it fels like because I had my boyfriend since high school and my love life didn't have it's zero period, there is always next in line. Maybe because I party a lot before and meet different kinds of people and maybe you're aloof and just stayING at home. If you're in that track you'll never found someone if you're too stock with your closet. Try to let yourself out and start dating, maybe if you wil be on parties or evnts you'll probably meet someone. :) Take it easy and let me know if you'll fine the one. It would be so fun. :)
@aweins (4199)
• India
29 Jun 11
hello dear princess_1989, you are such a darling. why do you worry about having a friend or a boyfriend. dont worry, you know you are young, beautiful, smart, intelligent, obedient. why do you worry? i think you never had an experience, that is the reason . boyfriends feel good only for sometime, when you want to be praised, you feel you are noticed and you are loved and are special for someone. there is someone who cares for you, waits for you just for you , but my darling, thats all for sometime, reality s very different. i have gone through everything and i think, you are tooo good and you are enjoy being single. if you are not enjoying , then i can bet you that the moment you will have a boy friend , after some while, you will crave for a single status, and i bet you sweet heart. i have gone through so much and i have had so many relationships. but now, i crave to be single. it is so lovely feeling, it is a free bird like feeling. its living on an open beach side , its like doing anything without objection, or permission or anything. Single is the best. but yes, because you never had a relationship, GOD, bless you with a very beautiful, understanding loving, and caring relationship. as you have written yourself, do not loose hope, world rules on hopes and wishes and above all prayers. your Knight and shining armor are not very far, love you darling, GOD BLESS YOU.
• Italy
30 Jun 11
I am also victim of the same situation. I hope you will get rid of this soon.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
For me yes but if you know the true God Jehovah you don't said it in person you can said it in your prayers to him.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Oh don't fret about it. Just entertain yourself by going our with your friends often. You might not know in one of those socials, you will meet your knight in shining armor. Love comes in the most unexpected places , and just when you least expect it , my friend. Meantime, just persevere in your prayer.
@akkpakkp (34)
29 Jun 11
hey princess.... i have always had that feeling in my life ....last year i truly loved one girl and there was some prob. between us and unfortunately i broke up with her....and u knw what being alone is also fun dude ...when i was with her there was less time for me but now u knw what... i enjoy doing my work with lots of fun....
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Oh yes i know the feeling.. Especially now my son give me the freedom to look for a husband or boyfriend. But honestly at my present situation as a single mom, i am happy and satisfied not in a hurry anymore. But there really some times wish i have somebody with me to comfort when in times of need. Im a good daughter too when i was still young and while schooling. In my entire life after school i consider only one bf but unfortunately after a year i broke up with him (whatever the reason i'd like to keep it private). My suggestion is that will just wait for the person that much us. I know he/she is somewhere out there, lets not get hurry coz this is not a contest after all hehehe.. Just love love love :-)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Don't be so frustrated without having a boyfriend. Life is not all about it. You are still young and enjoy being single. Having a relationship is not the only answer to have a happy and contented life. I know what you feel, but love will come and you will enjoy it better if you are a little older
@Jelminrie (358)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Hey don't lose hope, my aunt got a boyfriend and get married at 40, they had 2 kids but unfortunately get separated, maybe its not yet time for you to meet your future partner....