Always Inlove but with the Wrong One?Who's the Right One?

Philippines
June 30, 2011 10:28am CST
Teens most popular topics lately or best ever even before is all about LOVE. Being happy with the love tickles and romance and etc. With them the best motto is Collect and Collect then Select. And trial and error... Being in a relationship is never a trial and error with a lot of people. Being in a relationship should not be just like a STATUS UPDATE, a mouse click to change. Being in a relationship is a responsibility...Saying the magical Three Letter Word I love You...has a lot in it IT'S A BIG RESPONSIBILITY. Now Always Inlove but with the Wrong One? How will you know who's the right one and when is the right time? For me i have this in my mind as my parents taught me and my church and my environment shows. Knowing the Right one means a lot of tests and here's mine: A woman's heart should be lost in Jesus so the man should seek Jesus in order to see the woman's heart.
2 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
1 Jul 11
This is a problem with many people, particularly women. For some reason, before I found my current partner, I always fell for the wrong person, too. I fell for the guy who would never treat me right and those who would always choose their friends over me. It made me feel as though I wasn't really worth very much, but then I soon worked out that it was only because they were in the wrong that the relationships were making me feel so bad. The man who I am with now is lovely and would do anything for me, and that's the man that you should aim to look for. Anyone who makes you feel bad isn't worth knowing at all.
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Thanks GemmaR, I have read a book before about Love,Courtship, and Marriage. It explained the Wrong Faces of Love. They said other thought LOve is just a feeling. a social responsibility. a necessity. infatuation. Many Girls misunderstood guys, Many Girls have so many bulbs in their hearts that's why they easily fall in love, hahaha, sometimes the good feeling or what we call "kilig" is love for them and even without knowing the person we give in, and mistook it for love, and then later on we realize it's not... For those guys who never treat girl right will have they prize later on, maybe not now but i know later on..:)I am happy you found the one.
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Well said, i love how you figured out this stuff nevertheless i learned from previous experience that love is every battle we should win for. I mean its just normal to meet someone far from our expectations or someone that has different principles in life but i also learned that someone its great to be heart broken so that you will know how it is to finally meet the ONE. Enjoy life.
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Thank You catycat, your right love is every battle we should win for, Love is something you should stand for, I am very idealistic when it comes to love because at church they thought us how God loves His people that's why He sacrificed His only Son,Keeping your eyes closed while you know what your SOn is experiencing an extreme pain is indeed a battle, a battle for a father but because of His kind of Love and the plans He prepared for us, He let all things happen for one reason, its Love. That kind of LOve should these teens realize. They should look for the LOVE they will fight for, the love that is worthy. A true LoVE...