Missing someone so badly!

Denmark
June 30, 2011 2:07pm CST
How do you manage to keep standing still and strong when deep inside, your badly, miserably wants to jump out of your place and running in the arms of someone you missed the most? :(
6 responses
• United States
30 Jun 11
Hi! HUG!!!! First, I let the emotions out (SAFELY) and when I feel more in control, perhaps try something new such as a hobby that's interested me or take a class. Pretty much anything that is sensible and where I can get your mind off other matters. Not that I'm trying to make light of your situation, not at all. The last thing you need to do is let this become overwhelming to you. You will be all right....I've been there where I felt beaten down and torn apart emotionally. Eventually, I did pull myself together and promised myself that I wouldn't let it beat me. That year was 8 years ago and I'm not beaten yet! HUG!!!!!
• United States
30 Jun 11
Hi! Thanks for what you said! :) Ok....while he is away from you (pray not long), do keep yourself busy. Not crazy busy but enough that this isn't so torturous. Is there a class you can take? Computer skills, new language, anything that you've been meaning to do but haven't done? For me, keeping busy made separations easier. Just hang in there!! Sarah
• Denmark
1 Jul 11
Yes, I am taking a language class. But it's only thrice a week so I feel so empty everytime I'm home and doing nothing. Almost everything reminds me of him. But yes, I should give an effort of thinking what else can I do to make myself busy. Thanks a lot for the words! Have a nice day.
• Denmark
30 Jun 11
You must be really tough coz you surpassed it with words of wisdom right now mann! Yeah, guess these words would help me. But this someone is still my special someone, you know what I mean. I believe we're still together but not physically anymore coz he's out somewhere miles away from me. In short, were having this Long distance relationship. And God, I pray this will work forever :(
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
30 Jun 11
ive learned to live with it. I miss someone so badly but i know i can never be with that person. The only thing i can do is live with that feeling and move ahead in life.
• Denmark
30 Jun 11
Like keeping yourself busy? Oh I'm getting crazy thinking about it esp. at night! Dang!
• South Korea
1 Jul 11
Not keeping myself busy exactly. Just living with it, keeping that feeling with you no matter how much it hurts. But i guess all I need is some more time, time heals pain.
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
When I misses him.. I just close my eyes and fee his arm around me, thinking of the thoughts we had together, and praying that we will keep our feelings until the end. Well, this is the hardest part when you misses somebody that you really love most. Sometimes missing someone is like tearing us apart and suddenly we don't know we are crying and its like we are lost without them. Try to get busy because time really flies so fast, sooner or later he will be in your arms again.. that's what I'm thinking always, think positive and happy things that will come after awhile. Just be strong and believe to those promises.
@GemmaR (8517)
1 Jul 11
When I split up with my boyfriend in January, I felt exactly like this. I managed to stop myself from talking to him for four months, but eventually it became too much and I just had to speak to him. The thing is, it turns out that he feels the same for me as I do for him, and we got back together after being apart for just a couple of short months. You should always tell people how you feel about them, as there's always going to be the chance that they will feel the same. However if you can't do this, then I find that doing anything and everything to take your mind off it is the best way forward. You might even find that you are able to have a good time without even thinking that you would.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
1 Jul 11
Well I am in the same situation and some times I feel so weak that i cry out When I am lonely at night.But some how I am holding My self,I just say to my self if she does not care for me , why should i Do, though it helps me for sometime but not every time.I think the time will fill the wounds itself, till then have to suffer the pain
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
1 Jul 11
I really don't know how to answer this crap little thing because we're on the same track. ;(
• Denmark
1 Jul 11
Yes, we are! They say keep yourself busy but no matter how I concentrate on something I always end up missing him :(