being SINGLE doesn't mean you're not Taken...

superb! im glad i found this discussion.. this is actually happening to me right now.. im her senior in an institution im like her big sister and he's like a lil bro to me, but then came to a point that we become too close.. He knows i like him but he's too young for me.. Lately there's been a sudden change in our relationship because he had this text mate (an old friend) and i think he wants to court the girl.. i know i shouldn't be hurt but it came to the point that im so sad cuz i really miss his company, a lot has changed between us.. i really don't know if i love him already but it's kinda like your quote "the problem is that as much as i can't force you to love me, I can't force mysellf either to stop loving you", but more on like "the problem of being with him, like i need his time but i can't demand for it" and i just kept on missing him.. either im loving/in love with him or just needing his presence which is totally confusing me lately and i really want to get away with what im feeling.. (T_T)

Are you this guy in the situation? Okay, no need to answer. I've never been in such a situation. In fact, sometimes I ask my parents, Do people really fall in love???? And do they become crazy with love???? See.. I have not come into this kind of thing. But for me, when one know that the person he/she loves would never be his/hers, I think slowly try to move away and accept it. Based on what I've seen, it's a difficult one and can't be done in an instant. But as I said, do it slowly. Like throw away everything that makes you remember and feel hurt IF NEEDED. Well, don't waste things but if someone thinks it just brings pain, throw it away. Time heals. Maybe the wound is still so fresh. But eventually, in its own time, it will heal. Until then, try to not "infect" it meaning don't do things that will only hurt more. But if you like someone and just cannot tell him/her and nobody would get mad (like maybe the person is married), go tell him/her. At least he/she knows, right? And if broke up, well, don't blame yourself. Things happen for a reason. Maybe you'll find better. Just let things go.

Love is can be playful sometimes to let somebody suffer first before he becomes happy with love. Many singles can relate with this LOve quotes as all are fascinated with LOVE. I am once a single and I have known this feeling before. Singlehood is the time to be playful, to be happy and to be soooo in love!

When I was in first year college I fell in love with a friend but never admitted it to him even though it was pretty obvious to the whole world. My family and the rest of my friends knew about it as i wasn't shy in telling them that i loved him. I considered him my first love even though that love was never reciprocated. I never had any relationship because I feel that I only belonged to him and i was patiently waiting for him to feel the same way too. Of course it never came but i never got over him until I graduated. It was only two years after I graduated from college that I fell in love with another friend and this time the feeling was reciprocated.

Ok I will not tell you about mine.. I will tell you is about your situation this situation is really happening to you. If you feel something love to someone else but something bothering or affraid to you that possible be happened, I think your in the wrong way my friend, sometimes we can check ourselves to prove it is ok or not.. So better to tell he what your feeling is might be she is waiting your approach. Or in the other way affraid may be not accepting my simple advice at least you try to tell her than you keep it secret forever, what is your waiting the girl who approach you... I hope so

I had that feeling before but eventually i let him go. coz in any way loving him is so usedless, I am just hurting myself more. But good thing is we are good friends now. :-) even it he doesn't know i had this kind of feeling to him even before...

For me no not taken if you have no girlfriend yet because taken there is someone get your attention and have a commitment.