Why girls never listen during adverse situations?

United States
July 6, 2011 3:16am CST
I have frequent fights with my girlfriend and of course that is natural between lovers. But, during adverse situations and tuff times, like during a fight, often she never listens to whatever I say. She thinks that her point is right and everyone else's is wrong. Even if I explain patiently, she never accepts and respond adamantly. I usually say, "Let's leave it dear and be happy"
3 responses
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
Youre a great patient guy, i dont know what you were doing with her?i mean she should have atleast compromised or something. She cannot be right all the time.Shes a human being is she? i think she listens but doesnt know how to deal with it.
@drasnian (548)
6 Jul 11
It's really sexist to say "girls never listen during adverse situations" based on your girlfriend alone, who is after all just one woman. I don't think its a male or a female thing, I think some people are just inclined to believe they're always right (even when they're wrong) and I'm afraid I don't know how to deal with people like that. You can't always just let it go though - what about if you're fighting about something that's really important to you?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
That's the best thing to do my friend. After sometime when you are both in good mood, you can joke about it and maybe say your piece.