i love a girl but idk if she loves me back

United States
July 8, 2011 11:02pm CST
ok i went to a friends house and she interduced me to a new girl. i think she is really pretty and has a great personality. we talked for a about a week and i thought it was going somewhere. all of the sudden she kinda stoped responding to my messages and she dosnt act the same when she does. one of my friends said i waited to lon to make a move? can someone tell me anything
9 responses
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
There's just one thing you need to do to know and that is to ask her! Ask her out for a date. If she doesn't accepts or avoids having to go out with you then move on. She most probably not interested in you anymore. If she accepts, then prepare to do something that will push your relationship with her forward. Pretty simple, right?
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
you wouldnt know unless you ask... and are you sure it's love? if you see a girl acting differently, just try harder to know whats happening but dont go overboard because she might get annoyed. take hints. she might not be as sweet as she was before, maybe because she wants you to do things on a different level. whatever happens, be prepared. anyway you said you love her so i bet you wouldnt back out that easy.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
see that! what a development, lol. anyways, best of luck. we're not so hard to figure out after all.
• United States
9 Jul 11
well she just tried to talk to me so lets see how this turns out :D
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
9 Jul 11
these women are the most unpredictable creatures on earth. You never know what she has in the mind. They say its easier to trace the path of fish in water than to read the mind of a female. good luck
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
this is really funny! but this is one of the facts guys have to accept with women. and we have no idea why we can be like that... we would love it if men just understood this nature and we can just get away with it
• India
9 Jul 11
Hey! you said that you talked with her for about a week and i don't think it is a long and enough time for any love response.so you are not too late. did you meet her many a time personally during that lovely week? and yes in this advancing world the rules are different and strange ones. you should take it as love if a girl says that she like you and even many things about you. because the girls often say that liking is not always loving. but as you are in love with her, then go to your friend or call her to tell you when the girl whom you love is visiting at her home. knowing the schedule you should also visit there and then judge how she is feeling and acting to find you there.if she does not iniciate talking then you must initiate. anyhow you should talk to her if you feeling free to do so. GOOD LUCK! GET GOING!
• United States
12 Jul 11
i found out why she wouldnt talk to me its cause she is moving in two days
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jul 11
I just think maybe you did wait too long. Women aren't always going to wait forever. Some women think because your waiting your not really interested so they find someone else that will do things at a quicker pace so they know they really are wanted...
• Mexico
9 Jul 11
That sucks man but don't worry things always work out. Just ask a friend of hers what's up I'm sure they'll know. If they say that she's moved on or doesn't like you then sorry man, but maybe she's shy, busy, or hasn't seen your messages, it happens. I would just wait a bit before you assume she is ignoring you full stop. Keep at it man.
• United States
9 Jul 11
thanks this cheered me up i mean my friends keep my mind off of it but when you find a girl your really like its just hard to let go i no she liked me but idk now
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
You're right norqvist! Ask the friend of hers. That's the best thing to do now. :)
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
I think young people always want the fast track and you are not that fast to act so the girl left you. It is sad when young people take friendship and good things for granted and make it worst by defying good ethics! Be thankful that you did not get serious with the girl and saved yourself from heart ache!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
I think the girl grew tired waiting for you to propose. But don't worry, you can win her back. Try to have a talk with her and open your heart to her. Good luck!
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Maybe she's busy and just tired of you. You must have tell her your feelings..Try to call her or her friend, asked whats up with the girl you like.I think it will lighten your heart up :)