How can I stop this feeling?
By five678
@five678 (23)
United States
July 12, 2011 12:03pm CST
I think I'm in love. And it hurts because I don't know if he feels the same way too. I've been thinking about him everyday. Can't get him off my head. He's my boss and I dunno if his niceness is just part of his being a boss to me, but I can't help but look at it as something that is special. He's married but they've split up for a while now and I'm not sure but I think I heard that they're already in the process of a divorce. He is always so nice to me and always wants me to stay beyond my shift and always gives me the easiest tasks. But I just wanted to know how I could stop this feeling, 'coz I didn't wanna get hurt in the end. I believe that God already has chosen the right one for us even before our birth, so if he's not the right one for me after all, I better put an end to this feeling now. But how?
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3 responses
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
12 Jul 11
This would be a tough situation to go through and deal with. I don't think you can just stop loving him without time. You diffiently will have to wait though and see what things happen between him and his wife. You don't want things to turn bad. You probably will have to try focusing on where you are directing your thoughts. Keep yourself busy that way you are not always thinking of him. Also put yourself in his shoes if he's in the process of a divorce starting a new relationship maybe the farthest thing from his mind.
@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
12 Jul 11
Yeah, right. Place some value on yourself and don't make yourself cheap. Even though you like him or love him that much, keep it to yourself for a while and see if he will push through on courting you. Love yourself first.
@hardworker1972 (311)
• United States
12 Jul 11
I agree with what Magtibaygom said here. Value/love yourself first above all. I mean if you don't you may find yourself later on down the road unhappy because you compromised something about you.
@sirnose (2436)
• United States
15 Jul 11
So, you think you're smitten and bitten. Sounds little like infatuation, first you isn't sure that his kindness is a come on or just the way he does business. Then you say that you think that he's divorcing his wife this tell me that you are not certain about your bosses intentions or the situation. Question: has your boss ever asked you out on a date? Has he told you that he has romantic feelings for you? and Does the other worker think that you and your boss has something going on? If the anwsers is no to any or all of these questions well it's you and not your boss.
Come to grips with reality somethings are meant to be and other things or not to be. Grow up, you say that you are 22 yrs old you will have lots of infatuations before the real thing comes along. Believe me you will know.
@hardworker1972 (311)
• United States
12 Jul 11
Well, love is a tricky thing. Take things slowly and make sure that this is what you want. Then attempt to build a friendship with the person. If it's the right thing surely things will blossom from there.
