Come and Go! Wondering on how he think?

Philippines
July 13, 2011 9:32am CST
I've met a guy before when I am still in abroad. We have dated for many times and I've been committed to him. One day, suddenly he's gone!He never told me where he goes and what's his plan. I sent a message on his mail address but never respond. Until, I went back home in Philippines and I was surprised I got a message from him after 2 months. He promised me again to come and visit me and to marry me. But now, I am wondering again if its true or not because he's not replying again my message! Please help me find out how he think why he used to promise and talk very sweetly if he is just fooling around?
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Personally I would be a little worried if I were you, and a little cautious for sure. It is not like someone who really cares about someone to all of a sudden disappear like this without no notice and not even offer you a good explanation and then they text you one minute, etc. and then not respond again. Personally you are Best looking for someone else, and leaving them hanging in the wind.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
13 Jul 11
It sounds like this fellow may have commitment issues. I would be weary of him, but I'd also be upfront with him. Tell him that you are not sure what to think because he had just disappeared like that and took so long to get back to you. It will help save a lot of heartache in the future and may also help him realize his behavior. Good Luck!