do u believe love at first sight...???

July 16, 2011 2:20am CST
well i think many of you have crush on one or the other in your life.. i had a thought many people saying love at first.. how is this possible and how do love a person without knowing her..???
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Hi Deepu! I don't believe at love at first sight. I believe in crush at first sight but not love. I don't think I can love anyone without knowing the person. I think at first glance, you can only feel attraction, particularly physical attraction for a person. Maybe at times, you can get interested because of curiosity but I don't think there's love in it. I think love can develop and the attraction can be the first base.
@km2011 (28)
• Philippines
18 Jul 11
you can get infatuated at first sight because of good looks or charm or wits. But you can never love someone after looking at them for the first time. Growing a love for someone means accepting him/her wholly - both good and not-so-good qualities. How can you accept someone fully if you've only met them? :) Makes sense?
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
17 Jul 11
Love at first sight is certainly a very rare thing. It is very hard to understand how it is at all possible. But, I have known some cases that actually happened, and lived on so happily together. It must be the work of destiny bringing the two together, at the right time and the right place. Amazing !
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
Hi Deepu, welcome to myLot. For me, love at first sight is possible in the sense that both of you knew each others life or both of you have some life experiences that connects you both like for example inside the school campus, you were classmate or schoolmate, workmate, friends, chatmate, textmate, neighborhood, etc. But love at first sight is not possible especially if you fall in love with the person whom you do not know in person or have no social connection at all. Maybe, it can be considered as a puppy love or crush but not a true love. This will only work if you will really attempt to know the person better and put some effort to show it to the person that you really love and care for her or him. Happy mylotting!
• Indonesia
16 Jul 11
I never believe love at first sight.something that facinating you in first meet can't say it as love, but more into "admire" and sometime lust,lol there's some people who said they had love at first sight in their life,but for me it's almost impossible because you need to know your partner and recognize him/her well before finally fall in love
@Humanicon (328)
• India
16 Jul 11
No i donot believe in love at first site.The first reason is that it is not love at all.It is just attraction. The second reason is that it was never a love at all. Novel, love stories ,movies, serials and other stuff made people think that there exists any love at first sight.But in actual it is not so. Humans have certian needs.In this needs love also comes and there is a need of body also.So when ever we see opposite genre we feel something and this something can not be called as love.So love at first sight is this something.That means it is just an attraction. Love is divine.It is a deep emotional feeling for some one we love.It cannot be done with any stranger you see on streets.Love happens with some one who understands you , who feels for you ,who cares for you.
• India
16 Jul 11
there can never be a true love on love at first sight. Love can only happen after knowing the person you love. Often when love happens on first sight it is not the pure love, it's just an infatuation. Even if it's love it can't last for long. I truly believe in love only after having a relationship with the person I love.
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
Nope. I don't believe in love at first sight at all. Maybe second sight! Just kidding! Anyway, I think the feeling of love at first sight is just caused by an overflow of emotion at a certain instant. I will believ it if it is rephrased to "Attraction at first sight" Love is deeper and attraction is shallow. But since love is typically subjective and varies from different jpoints of view, that may be applicable to other people who consider love as attraction. But for my part I don't really believe such.