Do you think that you love everyone who loves you?

India
July 16, 2011 7:17am CST
Do you think so. I have seen children hurting their mother. I don't do that but in some films also we can see girls cheating boys. And boys cheating girls. Have you ever done something like this. What's your opinion?
4 responses
• India
16 Jul 11
In today's world we can't really rely on anyone, it is very difficult to find true love in this world, we've been hearing about breakups, cheating and what not, and the worst part is when we love someone we except something from it, and when those expectations are not fulfilled we get hurt these is really heartbreaking for me, Till now i didnt did such things that could hurt my partner or my family, but on the other hand we can't really say anything things can change very fast if today a persons mood is good the other day it can be worst. So the best way to live according to me is love everyone but dont except anything return form them, when we see things in surprise they always makes us happy indeed.
• United States
16 Jul 11
This is so true. I have been hurt numerous times by having expectations of others. I have found in todays world people act like they care but in reality the only thing the care about is themselves. If they run over a few good/great people along the way, who cares, they're are only concerned about numero uno. Best Wishes!
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Jul 11
Nope I don't think I love everyone who loves me and I don't think I can do so too. When we were in Junior high, there was this guy who liked me and proposed me to be his girlfriend but I never liked him. We just stayed as friends and actually we weren't very close too. So yeah I think it's not possible to love everyone who loves you or vice versa.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
16 Jul 11
i know children at any age ,4 or more will like to hurt their mothers.Even at the age of thirty or fifty the women or the mother gets this.She is hit by the kids back who are in anger. If they are at the age of 10 they can be given a nice slap to be under control.But as they grow up the kids become more stronger than mothers so the mother looses her strength to keep them under control of the anger.
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
16 Jul 11
Welcome! As I was reading your discussion, I remember something my mother has always said to me, "I love you but I don't like you." Not really something I enjoy hearing on a regular basis. Mind you I'm in my 40s and my mother has said this to me as long as I can remember. Imagine as a child hearing this on a daily basis. I will admit, I love my mother because she's my mother. However, I stay away from her as much as possible. As an adult, I made this decision. It is better for me mentally. My husband is just amazed at some of the stuff she has said and still says to me. I also endured physical abuse from her. I hate to say it but some of the physical abuse you remember but the mental abuse stays with you forever. I've never hit my mother, though the thought has crossed my mind on numberous occasions. It's a good thing I don't live on the rule turnabout is fair play. If I had lived on the state, my mother would have been bruised a lot when I was a child, teen and adult. Best Wishes!