Which one care more about husbands money?

Well, I'd have to go for the wife who works in expense for her time for the kids. I'd say she cares more for the family's finance more compared to the one that stays at home and do the chores and take care of the children. Of course, the housewife still is valuable because it goes to show that she cares for the kids.

I don't think it matters whether the woman is working or not... she'll spend everything her husband earns, anyway. (I'm joking!!)

I think that women who stay at home to take care of the children or of the house care more about the husband's money as they have to be more careful with it and make sure it stretches to what they need it to stretch to. Those women who also have a job do not worry about it as much as they are more secure financially, they have their own income to fall back on when times get rough, or if they already add it to their husband's income they already know and / or are better off financially.

I don't think that it really matters. If a woman wants to work, she should. I know that my husband and I don't really have much of an issue about this subject. I do know that he would be fine if I were to work. The salary he earns is mine, what salary I earn is his. It's our money. The only difference is who earned it.

hello isloo, Actually,my hubby's money/salary is mine,and my money/salary is mine also It is the wife who holds the money/accounting at home. Husband's as the manager,and the wife as secretary ,treasurer and auditor (at home) So,this is not a question if who cares more about husband's money

My husband and I are married to each other and we see our marriage as an equal partnership. I handle our budget because I am better at it than my husband. He is the one who works right now because I cannot find work in the teaching profession. My husband tells me how much his check is then I look to see what bills are due and how much we owe. If there is money left over then we discuss whether we want to save it or if we want to splurge. We talk about then together then come up with a decision, if we cannot decide right away we wait until a decision can be made. I am hoping that I can get back into my crafts again and try to sell them online again so I can suppliment the income a little. Right now I am very busy with graduate school as well as remodeling the house which is preventing me from working on my crafts.

I actually don't think the fact of whether she works outside the home or in it is a factor here. It's all about the woman's personality and what her priorities are. All money coming into the household should be for the benefit of the family and household regardless of who is bringing it in. After having been married for several years, I know that there will be times when the scales tip one way or the other. Sometimes my husband was out of work and it was me who had to pick up the slack and I did so without making him feel small for it . There were times when I was out of work and he carried the weight as well.

Hi isloooboy, Though I am not married I live with my boyfriend now for almost 7 years. We have a rule here at home, one that we both instantly applied without even discussing. That is what is mine is his and what is his is mine. We are very conscious on how either one strives to earn it, therefore, we both share all the expenses. Currently I am not working offline so he automatically stepped up and pays almost everything. I take care of what I can and make sure home is taken care of. But I must also say that he does laundry, housecleans, cooks and helps just about anywhere. Therefore, here at home there is no this is yours or your job to do. It is about how the both of us can make our home peaceful and happy. While I realize this does not work for some others, as I was married to someone who was not like this in the past. But I must say I have a wonderful home where the both of us wan the same things out of life.

isloo: what happened? Your discussion -- i am unable to make out. let me give options as i understand -- Are women taking more care about the money earned by husband or the husband who is earning money is taking more care about money? Is this right? How are you? long time no see?