Please help!!!

I've kinda been in the same situation. My ex-boyfriend asked me to meet him and he wanted us to have our goodye kiss and goodbye hug. He was my first love as well. but we were both in a relationship during that time. A part of me really wanted to see him and do it. But, I know that somehow my boyfriend will find out about it and I don't wanna loose him because of that. so I didn't go and I told my boyfriend about it. Uhm, i asked my ex-bf if we would do that, would he considered it as cheating. He said no...and that we were just doing some unfinished business. Well, the only advice I could give you, is to not get carried away. Like from my ex he only considered it as an unfinish business. And his already married. So...don't.

it means you're an unfinished business. and he wants to settle it. don't expect anything if anything happens between you two. because he's just trying to even the scores. be careful. don't get carried away by the feelings. he's not going to leave his wife for you.

I think it's just spur of the moment. You guys were in love then and after so many years you saw each other and remembered how it used to be when you were kids. Talking and coping up with the lost time is fine but getting romantically involved is way too far. A lot of things may have changed..it's been 11 years and if I may suggest, since he is already married, you should hold yourself back and draw a LINE between you two. It would just makes him confused for sometime and as for you, you are taking the risk of getting hurt.