if you can't comment nice, don't comment at all!
@chicksdigscars (5483)
July 18, 2011 10:11am CST
i am getting really peeved off at people usng mylot as a way to vent their insecurities,anger and obvious annoyance at their seemigly dull lives at other people on here!! people post discussions as a way to voice their feelings, emotions, thoughts, and to ask for advice etc or to tell people about things. people leaving nasty, cheeky and rude comments for no reason is uncalled for. everyone is entitled to an opinion etc.. but why would you read something, and it clearly disgusts or annoys you, why not just click away and not bother leaving a comment? why would you read someones discussion and openly ridicule them and belittle them? surely thats making people possibly NOT want to actual mylot at all, or not want to post a discussion on the offchance that some moron with a chip on their shoulder leaves them something rude and nasty. there is no need for ignorance in this day and age, and no need for anyone to ridicule, belittle, and just make a prat out of someone for no reason! it's cruel, and harsh, and isn't what mylot is supposed to be about. if i don't agree with something someone has written, i will atleast try to offer some constructive critisim, or offer them some advice, not just be a cheeky sod for the same of it!! RANT OVER!!
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@chicksdigscars (5483)
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19 Jul 11
thank you! :) :) .. i just hate people thinking that by ramming their obnoxious opinions down other peoples throats, they are helping anyone!
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@chicksdigscars (5483)
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25 Jul 11
on no, it defo won't. i love mylot. it's my distraction from the mundane task of having to work for a living lol!
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@balaji85in (459)
• India
1 Aug 11
Hi chicksdigscars.. This is a public forum.. Variety of people exist here. Internet is just like an ocean.. Even once, i have received a rude comment from one user. That person reputation in myLot is 92/100 and also he/she has posted more than 4000 posts.. But i really do not know why that person insulted me by using harsh words.. I have posted nothing wrongly or anything rudely.. Since many people responded me to that discussion in a great way. But that 1 person only responded very badly.. But within few mins that post was removed by myLot admin due to violation.. So i am requesting you to please don't give importance to the rude and nasty comments.. If you received that kind of comments in future, please ignore it. So many helping minded people exist in this place. Stay united with them. Rude, nasty kind of comments will be surely removed by admin..
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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2 Aug 11
thats terrible that someone was that rude to you, i am glad that their posts got deleted and that those rude comments did not remain there for you to see! i don't understand why some people feel the need to be nasty and rude. there is no need for it, and they do not make friends this way.. and surely they should realise that the more rude they are the less likely people are to speak to them!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jul 11
Well, I tell people on here all the time about all of my insecuritities, problems, anger and annoying things that happen to me. I didn't know that was a problem.? 
I guess I must REALLY annoy you then. Hmm. Didn't know this annoys you, wow.
Anyway, I have had some really rude comments on here and it hurts. I agree, I left here for a year due to some things in my life and also because of some comments I kept recieving. I didn't appreciate it at all. I think they should just go on to something else if it annoys them. (If my discussions annoy you, I understand if you don't want to answer them).
If I don't like a discussion, I just find another one. Why can't everyone do the same? I agree with that.
I guess I must REALLY annoy you then. Hmm. Didn't know this annoys you, wow.
Anyway, I have had some really rude comments on here and it hurts. I agree, I left here for a year due to some things in my life and also because of some comments I kept recieving. I didn't appreciate it at all. I think they should just go on to something else if it annoys them. (If my discussions annoy you, I understand if you don't want to answer them).
If I don't like a discussion, I just find another one. Why can't everyone do the same? I agree with that.@chicksdigscars (5483)
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20 Jul 11
lol!!! nooooooo!! jesus i am really am seeming to offend people today! no no i love your discussions! i don't mean people discussing their insecurities, problems and annoying things that happen to them, no way! no i write posts about my insecurities and feelings and doubts and fears etc etc too.. what i'm talking about is people taking THEIR anger issues and THEIR insecurities out on other people by their nasty comments.. for example. if you wrote a discussion about i don't know.. being afraid of spiders or something. and i was to see it and be in a really angry mood and was to write something like "that's pathetic, wise up, its only a spider don't be so stupid!" etc thats m,e taking my anger out on you, instead of writing something like aww thats terrible i hate spiders too etc but i got over my fear by holding a turantula etc.. see what i mean? if people want to write about their fears and insecurities etc as a discussion thats a wonderful thing that they can vent and get it all out there and get help and words of kindness from other people.. i'm taking about people using their comments to other people as a wat to vent their insecurities and frustrations to other people, but making other people feel like rubbish.. do you get me now?? xx
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