the "babyshower-friend"'s bottle arrives.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
July 21, 2011 5:00am CST
well, recenetly i had a post about how excited i was to host my best friends baby shower.. and then i posted about how she had turned into the physco b!tch from hell, excuse my french and how we aren't speaking.. she turned into a nasty, horrible, freak to put it mildly and after everything i had done for her, her secrets when she was cheating on her previous boyfriend, living with me for awhile, everything i'd bailed her out of, stuff i'd got for her, ordered for her, etc etc, she just completely turned her back on me, and worse than that, told me i was allowed nothing to do with her child, because apparently the child didnt need to be around a physco like me.. ok. hello pot. hello kettle, you're well black!! ugh.. anyway.. when i found out she was pregnant, i searched the internet morning noon and night for baby packs. anything and everything that was free, or just had to pay postage and packaging. i got her nappies, little cuddly toys, breast pads, formula, how to guides on parenting.. and then the best thing. a breast flow bottle. these bottles are really expensive as the teet is shaped just like the mothers breast and they are apparently the most comfortable, durable, and happy-baby-making bottles, and the website was selling them for £35 but giving you the chance to get one for £5 post and packaging.. so i ordered and paid for it for her. this was weeks and weeks ago, so when we fell out i forgot about it. well it arrived yesterday and i was very upset.. but being the person that i am, i sent her a text, asking for her address so i could forward it on, please. and she text back her address, and then a thanks. that was it.. no kind words. no how are you. not even a thanks very much, or you don't need to do that. she knows the effort i went to signing up to EVERYTHING to help her out as much as i could with her baby and she knows i found, and applied with all my details and paid for that bottle.. and she just gave me her address, and thanks. i've a good mind to throw it out. but i won't. i'll post it to her.. because thats who i am. has anyone ever fell out with a friend and still felt oblidged to be the better person?
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@SunnyShores (201)
• Boone, North Carolina
11 Jan 16
yes - you are the better person - but you could also send it to her postage due. (maybe, I"m not current on PO rules) Still though- you sound veryempathic and you've already done so much for her. As you post the bottle, maybe think in stead on why you need to be the better person with people who tear you down instead of ppl who build upon & build up your gifts. Many blessings for your kindness surely will come your way.


