Do you believe on this?
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
July 22, 2011 2:43am CST
I discussed on instant marriage which I attend. I think this is happened because God already fixed them both as husband & wife.
Everyone says God makes the couple. Some time we are trying the matching couple for our child in various city but when marriage is fixed we found with in a city, some time we think our son in law should well educated but when she got less educated. Our plan is failed. So I think this is true couples already fixed by God.
Some peoples are decided to love marriage and some are ready for arrange marriage. Because God fixed their marriage. No one can change the God decision.
Share your valuable and experienced views what you think really God already fixed someone is us or this is depend upon us according to our choice.
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8 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jul 11
You are absolutely right my friend the couple is decided in the heaven and not matter about age, education, color, cast etc. I like your comment thanks for it. Why your points is less increased it tell lots of responses. I am started funny question topic.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
22 Jul 11
Yes, I do believe god makes matches. And i do also believe no one was meant to be alone because god has already fixed someone for everyone! it's just a matter of time till they meet.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jul 11
Yes I also do believe on God makes matches. No friend if God writer in their fortuen live alone then they will live alone means I have seen some women not get married. So if god makes matches then no problem but if not makes then they live alone. Thanks for response.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
23 Jul 11
Wow really?? So the alone people you've seen they die alone?? I really wasn't aware of that. I always though god had made someone for everyone 
@ravend (659)
• Malta
22 Jul 11
NO matter who you marry;whether it is arranged or they fell in love, a marriage will require a lot of hard work. There are so many distractions in today's world that it is almost impossible to not be distracted.
:).
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jul 11
You are right my friend so many distraction for marriage in today world. I want to know really God makes the couple or we find according to our choice. Thanks for response.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Well, I do believe that all people have a predestination in their lives. I grew up in a family where it was up to us to choose the person that we wanted to get married to based on love. I personally couldn't imagine my life to be any different from the life that I have now. I will admit that there are times that I do question the decisions that I've made in my life, but that isn't because of the partner that I've chosen, instead it is because of other things that I've had happen in my life.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
I don't get why people do instant marriages. I think a couple should spend time together to know each other better because they don't wanna have trouble when they're already married and they decided they don't like each other anymore. Marriage is not a game, just so they know.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Jul 11
Hi Surekha 
I am learning about arranged marriages through you and several other myLot friends. As you know in my own culture we do not arrange marriages. I can see how that being part of your culture most succeed.
I was not aware that any arrange marriage can fail. What happens if it does fail, do couple get divorce in your country?
Yes I am glad that successful arranged couples are happy together and get a lifetime of happiness together.
I am learning about arranged marriages through you and several other myLot friends. As you know in my own culture we do not arrange marriages. I can see how that being part of your culture most succeed.
I was not aware that any arrange marriage can fail. What happens if it does fail, do couple get divorce in your country?
Yes I am glad that successful arranged couples are happy together and get a lifetime of happiness together. @surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Jul 11
Yes friend many marriages are failed but in rare cases because family members are handle any situation and they try to say to both husband and wife the importance of life but if the situation is worse and not possible to stay with each other then they get divorced. But in maximum cases the marriage is succeed till end of life. Thanks for sharing you nice view my dear friend how you like my dying photo.
how you like my dying photo.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
24 Jul 11
Nice image of Aishwarya Rai and Abhishek Bachan.
I have faith in god, yes, some where my life partner is also there... It should be already written there in heaven...
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 11
Hi Surekha!
I do believe that God already made someone for us.It is whether we already met them or not. Sometimes we can even say that person is match and made for us or not.It does not matter if you find and search for the love or arranged by the parents if that person is for you, you will be with him/her till the end of your life. For divorced people I strongly agree that they are not meant for each other. There are someone else out there for them. Like what happened to my sibling marriage and engagement.I can even tell whether they will happy and their relationship will stay long or not.I strongly believe in happily ever after relationship as well. it is for sure when you met the right person for you they will stay with you till the last breath. Anyway I am still looking for my Mr.Right. I am choosy not because I am perfect but it is because of my surroundings.(^^)
