How does one earn money when one doesn't know where to start?
By verolop29
@verolop29 (1096)
United States
July 27, 2011 7:32am CST
Im talking about me. Where do I start? How do I know if I'm doing the right thing? Sure it seems simple and easy for me to do but am I doing it right? I would like to think I am doing the right thing, sometimes I ask myself that question. You see Im a mother who stays homes while her husband works. Hard. I have 2 small girls who stay with me 21 plus hours a day. Its much too hot to go out and play so we stay indoors most of the time. So I started looking for a job. I tried working at night but I just dont have the energy to stay up all night and day. He tells me I dont have to work. And I love him for that but I think I can contribute more than I already am. So that's how I found this new job. And its good, I guess. I haven't earned money and that's where it's making me feel discouraged. That's where the questions come from: am i doing it right? I need things explained to me in a certain way, you see. Kind of like 'holding my hand'...and who wants to hold my hand and look over my shoulder? No one. I get it, I accept it. Who can blame the person for not holding my hand, I know I dont! They have other things they need to do, like I said, I get it. But still, is it too hard to ask someone to check on me from time to time? So I asked the next best person to help me and he's a pro! You see I wanted to surprise him by showing him I can make money and watch over our girls at the same time! It's NOT easy! Only problem is..I DON'T GET IT! so that is where he comes in
2 responses
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
27 Jul 11
I think that you should get a job that pays you well and you don't have to work that many hours. So, you can still have time to take care of your girls and the house. Then on the side stick to mylot, I know at first it seems like it's lousy pay but after awhile you'll get the hang of it. Then do legitimate paid surveys, cause there are some sites that pay good money per survey.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
28 Jul 11
I thank you for giving me such sweet advise! I should get a job that pays well but my husband to me before we got married that he wants me to stay home and keep up the house and everything while he works...nine years and 2 girls later..it's gotten a little tough! He's such an old fashioned kinda guy but im not complaing! It's just why do i feel that i can do more? Im the maid, the cook, and a babysitter in my own home, i shouldn't be feeling this way..!Am i the only one like this? Anyway I do the paid surveys but on most of them I dont qualify for them. But im not stoping there!
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
31 Jul 11
The reason you feel that you should do more is because you can. You should talk to your husband and let him how you really feel. Marriage is about equal partnership.
There are other ways to make money online you just have to find the ones that are legit.
@bravobrino (70)
• India
27 Jul 11
Well that's a big question where one starts.In every pursuit the first step is the last step.By your story everyone will know that you have tried so many things in life in terms of earning but the search still goes on.Am not a strong person to answer your question or advice, as i myself am a newbee in this trade.But I am hoping and I do hope that Mylot will bless us and to be so true we are here now.Keep on searching ..our seniors will certainly guide us...and may be some bay we may the Gurus to guide others in Mylot!!!! God bless
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
28 Jul 11
your the sweetest! Im new to this site as well and Im begining to understand how this works...i think! I hope u get the best of blessings!
