When you feel that people change..

United States
July 28, 2011 11:10am CST
When people are changing what do you you do when the change seems as if its toward you, do you leave those people alone or what. Especially from the people who feel that the change would be better for them to act a certain way towards you, well as for me i just sometime choose to leave those people alone its no problem for me because I am use to people not hanging around in my life anyway so for me it would be easy for me to leave certain people alone with no problem. I don't mind letting go the people who need to be let go as friends or whatever you may call it. Life is funny that way but its the truth.
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bouncybug
@bouncybug (613)
• South Africa
29 Jul 11
I think it depends on whether the change is for the better or for the worse! If it is for the better, you should embrace your friend's new change and try and encourage them to better themselves further. If its for the worse, than sometimes you are right and are justified to leave those people that are no longer making a positive contribution in your life any more. There is no point in hanging onto relationships with people that are not worth it any more!
flowerfest08
@flowerfest08 (1677)
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29 Jul 11
like as what they say, the only permanent thing in this world is change.. you cannot pleas every body, maybe they change on how they treat you because they lost interest or they want to have someone else better to be with, same interest that they have. it's hard to rely that everyone around us right now will still be around for a long time and will not change on how they treat us, but we could only hope for that coz it's unlikely to happened. all we could do is just accept that they change. but if someone go, someone will also come.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
I will be hypocrite when i say that I am not bothered,or I will not be bothered. I am sure I will feel upset if it happens,esp with people that I love. If ever a friend change the way she treats me ,I will try to find the reason why. But,if she will ignore me,I will leave the decision to her if she still want me around or not. Yes people change and we can never do something if thy choose to change and kick us out of their lives. As long we know we never done wrong...thu it hurt to see them near,yet so far :( jaiho®