I thought we were all fine.. but I thought wrong!

@edsss17 (4394)
Philippines
July 29, 2011 8:46am CST
College is... exhausting, crazy, fun and most of all, very stressful! I made new friends whom I've been with since the first day of school last June.. and we've been hanging out since then. We laughed and cried with each other despite of the short time we've known each other. We became so close. I thought we are all just fine.. but I thought wrong... Very very wrong!!! I just find out they were all talking behind my back! I thought we were friends.. more like family! But hell no... and that breaks my heart! I feel cheated! Am I just being unlucky? Even my best friend is already ignoring me, guess we're not best friends forever anymore! I still love them all though.. I can't hate them! But I don't know...
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7 responses
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Look at the bright side of the story. You were given the chance to know that theyre not the kind of friends you need to keep in your life. Those were the people that I hate the most. Gossipers. Just continue with your life. I am sure that there is at least one of them who can sympathize with what you feel. Just stay who you are as long as there is nothing wrong with your self. Or you might wanna confront them. Ask them what happened. What did you do that made them do it to you despite the ties that you have built with them. and let them talk. Afterwarads, if it will seem that they will still continue doing it to you. OK! Move on. Come on. There is still a lot of people out there. Having friends is priceless right?
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Oh. why have I not think about it?! I think its a good idea.. Maybe I did something that they didn't like. Its hard to find friends that you'll feel comfortable right? I don't want to waste the memories we've made together. Thank you for enlightening me! :)
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
Hi bunso! Sometimes it's hard to find real friends but don't be sad about it,you can always have another friend. Treasure those who treasure you and just don't be too close to those who are just taking you for granted. It's always like that bunso,some are mean and some are good but what's important is,you should always be in the good side. Just don't mind them if they don't like you,it's their loss not yours!
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Hi inay.... I will. and I have already moved on. They're not worth my time! :)
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
30 Jul 11
It sure hurts when such things happen. Look on the bright side. You found out soon enough. If you had not, this could happen through graduation and you won't know what hit you. I guess time to move on to more sincere friends. In the famous words from "To kill a mockingbird" (paraphrased)-- family you can't choose, but friends, you can. Isn't that a consolation?
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
It is! Thanks tiffnkeat for that. you just make me smile/
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 Jul 11
It is human nature to talk good in the presence of one and talk something negative if possible in his absence. do not worry. keep urself away from such people.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
Indeed! :) Thank you for that ravisivan!
• China
29 Jul 11
Well, it can happen to everyone. I had such a friend. She was fine with me and we got along with each other. However, she was talking about me behind my back. I knew that and felt cheated as you. What I want to say, she is not my real friend. After graduation we have not got in touch with each other.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
Hi! :) It really when the one you thought who is your friend is the one who is talking behind your back! It totally hurts! I'm glad you get over her that quick! :) Good for you.
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
29 Jul 11
I'm so sorry to hear that you are having these problems with your friends. That is really awful to find out that people that you thought were your friends were really something else entirely. I think you should try and find people who are really there for you and are true friends - college is big enough that you will eventually find the people who are right for you - it just might take a little bit of searching!
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
Well, you are really right about it! I think I was just being blind not to see the real them! hahahaha... Thanks for that!
• Valdosta, Georgia
29 Jul 11
It doesn't sound like they were really your friends at all to begin with. I'm sorry. Try to remember that this is only a small portion of your life and once your out of there you will see who are your real friends and who aren't. Most of these people, you will never see again after school is said and done. I don't have any interaction with anyone from school now because I realized quick they weren't my real friends!
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
I guess you are right. I should have opened my eyes and mind since the start! Not everyone around me are real, right? Thank you.. I should move one! :) I need to be more realistic!