Have you ever fallen in love by accident??

United States
July 30, 2011 10:39am CST
You know to someone who you'd never in a million years think you could love and the BAM one day, you cant stop thinking about them?? My boyfriend of 6 years was a shock to my family because he is not our race. Im Turkish and he is Puerto Rican but I LOVE HIM SO MUCH... I even moved out of my house to live with him 1 month after we met... My motto is "once you go spanish the rest will vanish"..lol
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@APSC_girl (118)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Ha-ha! Your motto made me laugh. I remember another motto "Once you go black, you'll never go back!". I also remember the same motto but for an Indian guy. I think every nationality has its own uniqueness and beauty. Back to the real topic, I've fallen in love accidentally when I was in high school, it wasn't supposed to happen and I tried not to, but I did. We just dated for 9 months and I realized he's the one. We were too young back then. Maybe that's just puppy love.
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
I'm very much happy now with an Indian guy. Wow, you've been together for so long! I'm 19 now too and I wish my current boyfriend and I will still be together until I get to your age and until we become 70. I'm happy for you, stay in love!
• United States
31 Jul 11
I met my current boyfriend when we were 19, now we are 2 and even though we have had sooo many arguments and tears etc.. I know I could not possibly imagine a life without him...from the little things like the cuddling to big things like how he sticks by me during all hardships whether financial or health related, he has truly proved that this is real. :) hey u never know maybe one day you will run into your puppy love and rekindle your fire...good luck!!
• United States
31 Jul 11
im sorry meant to say we are now 25 lol
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Isn't falling in love always happen accidentally? I mean, you don't really fall in love intentionally with someone. You don't see someone and tell yourself, I will fall in love with him. Or you see someone and you tell yourself, I will not fall in love with him. I think falling in love is by chance, not intentional. We see someone not our type but somehow, Cupid plays and we fall in love with that person. Anyway, I'm happy for you. Good luck to both of you!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Did you?
• United States
31 Jul 11
When I first saw my boyfriend, first thing I thought was I hae to kiss him tonight... :)
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• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Well i consider mine also as an accident cause I never know my bf now husband before we have a relationship. falling in love is always mysterious it could be accidental or intentional.
• United States
31 Jul 11
definitely love is so unexplainable because it is something that only you and him can feel right?? like noone else feels it and its just sooo special...CUTE BABYY :)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
I guess me and my girl's story falls into this. See, we used to be friends for a long time, we don't even remember how we met! Then just last year, we just bumped into each other one night, just said our hellos and how are you's, then went off our ways. Then she invited me to dinner, we both had a few drinks after that, and then after that night of bonding, we soon became even closer, and then we suddenly felt so much love. I seriously felt deeply in love with her, and have been falling for her since then. Now, I really feel and want to spend the rest of my days with her. No doubt about that.
• United States
30 Jul 11
aww love that sounds like a romance movie,, its actually quite rare to find true love these days...friends make fun of me for doing things for my bf like cooking and even like giving him massages. To me those are givens you know?? its all about being there for each other
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
30 Jul 11
I actually think that most times, falling in love is 'by accident'. Often, you cannot choose the person you fall in love with, and without even realising it you just become head over heels in love with a person that you just happen to have been spending a lot of time with.. This happened to me, when I unexpectedly fell in love with my best friends brother! we have been together for 3 years and have never been happier :)
• United States
30 Jul 11
oh im glad ur brother was cool with it :-) u know how they say sometimes what your looking for is right under your nose and also when ur friends first its so much betterrr
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
I don't know if you call it an accident but I saw my wife while she was walking on the mall, at first I thought that this girl is so fine that she had to be mine. She was always on my mind but I hadn't talk to her until we bumped into each other again on the mall a month later, I never let go of the opportunity again, I made my move and 6 years later, we are married.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
29 Nov 11
I agree with you it isn't so much by accident. I seen my ex in the mall as well. We worked there and he would walk past my both everyday and smile at me. One day he finally stopped over to say hi and he like me dancing while I was working. Sure we didn't work out but it was cute. My current boyfriend I met online and we are planning on getting married so its perfect.
• United States
30 Jul 11
awww that is just soooo cuteee
@soulist (2985)
• United States
29 Nov 11
I dont know if I would call it falling in love by accident. Sure there are times when you don't expect to fall in love with someone, but it is never by accident. I never expected myself to fall in love with someone that I did. My ex was the complete opposite from the guys I dated, he was a "bad boy" type, though I knew the truth (he was just a teddy bear I seen past it all). i didnt expect to love him or love him still but I did.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
I will love not "by accident".For me love is like a plant starts from root or seed then grow hehhe.Will you agree?
• United States
30 Jul 11
from ur picture I take it you are muslim. If you are then salaam alaikum..then yes i know what you mean but you know how sometimes people fall in love with the wrong person??
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
31 Jul 11
I don't love is just bam. Infatuation and emotional and physical attraction is immediate. I do wish you a happy relationship. Be well and have successful days!
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
actually, 50 percent.... love begins by accident....
@wiguen (551)
• United States
31 Jul 11
all depends friend, having a good conversation with other gender, could possibly drive into a relationship, which is not bad and unique, hope you manage your relationship and make it work cause it feel so good to be loved. take care.
30 Jul 11
yes a lot of times. i had been engaged with illicit affairs due to accidental love, no matter how i try to avoid them.they seem soo tempting and make me feel excite, i know its wrong but all i have to do is to pray and control these emotions. i had been hurt a lot of times because of this foolish love.
• United States
30 Jul 11
lol yes i know but the best part i feel is when your over it and its like what did i ever SEE in him or her???