Pending friends

I don't understand the point of limiting or deleting friends?? For me the more the merrier. I do find my inbox quite full at times, but I routinely try to clear it. May I ask why you would want to delete anyone? Is there any advantage in having fewer? If they don't post then they don't add to your inbox. Thanks, just wondering what I am missing in this thinking.

I hope those who really want to be in your list will be working harder and harder to increase their tally, so that they could achieve the target.

I also watch how many posts they make and eliminate them if they don't move forward..in fact when they do a friends request I leave it for a couple of days to see if their numbers change...if it doesn't I don't accept.

ohhh why is your quota 50? if you don't mind me asking? .. i'd be interested to know why you don't just accept everyone and have lots of people on your friends list? why are you strict in how you accept friends, like they have to have made posts durig the pending time, and stuff? i just accept everyone so i'd like to know why you don't :) ps] you just added / accepted me because i was awesome right? even if i'd only 2 posts you'd have accepted me? right? lol!

i don't look at the number of their post. whenever I get friend request, I just accept it without checking their profile :) I'm just glad that they find me interesting to add. That is something to be thankful for. It's up to you if you wanna set your rules. That's is your account anyway.

By the way, are the total posts of your friends affect the earning that you get somehow? :/ If it is not, as for me, I would rather accept all friend request and may remove one or two if he/she annoys me (maybe because of sending a spam message or so). And about the notification that being mentioned earlier in several people's comment, thank you for letting me know xD. I will make a good use of that feature :D

Personally for me, it is interesting to see who usually ends up inviting me to be their friend here. Like you I always check to make sure that the person is active if I am going to add them, and make sure they are not going to want to SPAM me as well. Since I am one of the older members here a lot of times I get New people asking just because I am older. But personally there is nothing wrong I feel in waiting to see if a person is going to be active before accepting them for sure.

toniganzon I am leading in all the r ank here so am horribly active but I have over a thousand friends in my list and now i am getting way w ay too many notifications as I have no way to respond to all of them even though I work at it six to eight hours a day. lol. I was too lax in how I added friends and got too many spams do did delete a few also have deleted ones who have been here a week and left months ago.

I always accept requests from everyone. Because I know this is a very good site and here we can post our discussion. So if their are so much friends in your profile then you can also get many discussion everyday. So I have not any problems to accepting friend request from anyone. And now I have over 325 friends on this site.

So for you to accept a friend's request you have to see that their post or comments are increasing in numbers. That makes me remember when I did a friend's request on another website when I had just joined. There was women and men who declined me. The interesting was that after I had worked up my numbers of signed petition for helping other people worldwide they asked for my friendship. That tells me I had to prove myself to be good enough for them, before they wanted to accept me as their friend. I have learnt to be ignored and rejected by many people and judged and not been believed of what I said before they did know me. It is interesting how people can change their approach when they discovered all my altrustic hard work for other people's pleasure and wellness.

I m also having many friends in my list.....I m just thinking whether to make them in y friend list or not...And I hope here we can make them coz every friend could be useful.And mylot is not like other site...... Thanx........

Luckily I'm in your friend's list. Is there any special reward by achieving five hundred posts?

I haven't got many friends on mylot. Would you mind to be a friend of mine? I will surely work hard.