Can The First Girl Friend Or Boy Friend Become Your Future Wife Or Husband?

China
August 5, 2011 10:34am CST
Many years ago, many people told me that your first girl friend you meet won't be your future wife,actually I don't belive that at that time. I decide to prove that that is not true. But what happened afterwards proves that I'm wrong, I made two girl friends before I got married, and we lived very happily. The life with the previous girlfriends has become the memory. In fact, the chance rate that the first girlfriend being the future wife is really very very low. What do you think? Is your wife or husband the first girl friend or boyfriend?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
It doesn't matter whether it is the first girlfriend or the first boyfriend. What matters most is we love that person. Some couple married their first love,or first girlfriend or boyfriend. Some their childhood sweetheart..means,they're friends since they were kids and then get engaged and married after many years. so,it depend on our choice and destiny as well. have a good day and welcome to mylot jaiho®
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@zalilame (880)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 11
Yes I do. If their love can survive the world. I have a friend who got married to his childhood friends. Their love survive for 29 years and they got married eventually.
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• Canada
18 Aug 11
It can happen if the person is right for you. That's how it happened for me.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Aug 11
I can only say that it is hard to say, but it so happened that my first girlfriend who chased me first left me after five years of being in love with each other when she was assigned to work in the city and fell in love with her immediate boss, who was her master teaching her some of the work she was engaged in. It was a great sadness to me. All of a sudden I felt myself lost in the world when she told me about her decision without my knowing any sign of the ending of our love. I was wondering how come she could change so fast after her working in the city for only two months. Later I had to accept the fact that time and place change a person, especially when one is not persistent in whatever s/he does. Happily and luckily I am proud of my life now with a nice and kind wife as my lifelong partner. We are now living wonderfully though not rich materially. Enjoy your married life, Robben.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
7 Aug 11
Unfortunately, most people have to meet someone who isn't a good spouse, in order to know what person would be a good spouse. I have seen a few people that the person they first dated, ended up being their wife. But it is rare.
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
It's possible. The couple can be reunited after a long time and decided they're meant for each other. It's quite odd but it's possible.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
it did happen with us right now but not me, only my hubby my hubby was my 2nd boyfriend while i was his 1st girl friend. we spend our boyfirend/girlfriend relationship for 5 years before we get married. right now we have a 8 month old baby boy and we're happy that we ended up in each other's arms
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
Well I belong to those few who have married their first bf/gf! Yeah, my husband now is also my first boyfriend. All is possible just that it don't happen to everyone.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
There is no specific answer into that friend. Because our first girl friend or boy friend sometimes not our future partner
• United States
6 Aug 11
Anything is possible. My dad is the first person my mom dated and they have been married 29 years. I also have some friends that married their significant other from high school. Personally I am not married to my first boyfriend. I broke up with him due to family pressure and it is a decision I have long regretted. We are friends now and I will always love him. In an argument for marrying your first boyfriend/girlfriend; I think they are often more accepting of who you are as a person, if you wait too long to find someone you get very set in your ways and it is harder to fit a new person in and you have nothing to compare them to which really can be a great thing. In the end you have to find the person who is right for you. That may be your first boyfriend/girlfriend and it might not.
@xuyxuy (432)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
I think it depends on how the two of you get along well. First, second or last as long as you to understand and love each other then all is well. I don't believe that the first girl friend or boy friend will be your future lifetime partner. It really depends on whom your are destined to be will.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
6 Aug 11
Yes the first love can be a person's husband or wife. That is not impossible coz I have seen it in real life. There is this person I know who married her boyfriend after dating for 10+ years. They say they were lovers since I think elementry school For me that is shocking as well as amazing. i guess that is fate.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Aug 11
I think for many people marrying their first girlfriend or boyfriend would be difficult. I do however believe that there are individuals who have done so. My husband was actually my first REAL relationship. We were 13 when we meet. It is amazing and wonderful that we were able to get married down the road. It was eight years later but still an awesome thing. I think it is really special when individuals who have known each other for such a long time are able to be together.
@Tanitac (44)
• South Africa
6 Aug 11
It all depends on where you are in your life at the time and how mature you are to have a long standing relationship like that when you meet the other person. I know of many people who have married their first partners and I believe it is very possible! I think it also greatly depends on whether you really love each other or not. Relationships come with a lot of hard work and if you are in a stage of your life where you want to be with someone till you die then you will make it work barring in mind that you both love each other truly. So I think it is definitely possible but not everyone is going to meet their future partner the first time, only some people do.
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 11
Well, it really depends on whether the love between you and your first girlfriend will bloom. If it doesn't, then I guess it won't happen that way. But life still has to go on and the chances of meeting someone new is there.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
i think that there is a low possibility of people marrying their first girlfriend or boyfriend. especially the boys who are always wanting to explore more and is most often unsatisfied. as for me, i have broken up with my first boyfriend a long long time ago and i am happy now.
@tears08 (161)
6 Aug 11
it is possible that your first girlfriend or boyfriend would be your partner for life...i guess it all depends on how your relationship will turn out even after years of being together.. it depends on how intimate your relationship and how much do you really love each other.. i know few friends.. their wife/husband is their first love
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 11
Anything could happen in love and life, so It is actually really possible that we marry our first Girl/Boy friend. It may statistically have a low possibility, but a strong human determination could break any statistic and possibility. And it is about love anyway B-)
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
6 Aug 11
I have a friend and she's been with her partner since primary school. She's in her late teens now and they're still together which is amazing. Teenagers today tend to change girlfriends and boyfriends like changing clothes. At this stage, getting a partner is pretty much for security and trying to compete with friends due to peer pressure. It amazes me how my friend has been with her boyfriend for so many years and they haven't had any fights which have broken them up. So your first true love is quite possible.
• China
6 Aug 11
The rate is very low. I know that. But I do know my parents do. My mom is my dad's first girlfriend and now is my dad's husband. But that was in old times. They got married without seeing each other before. Well, one example you might be familar with, the former premier of China- Zhou Enlai, his marriage is considered the most loyal and happist in China. I do think so. I believe that my future wife will be the girl that now I am dating. I know I am right.