Some people are insensitive

Averygirl - I know u are slightly disturbed. You feel somebody is bossing over you. If it is in home situation it may be your father/mother/motherinlaw/fatherinlaw. If it is office it may be ur colleague or immediate boss. Life is mostly like this. Some people boss over us. We boss over others. Speak out in open space loudly whatever u have against that person and u will be relieved.(Japanese methodology of hitting at something imagining it to be boss!!!)

I think this is just life.I feel that there are people in life that will always feel like they are able to control other people in many different ways, it is up to the other person if they want to listen to them or not.I know of people that have tried to boss other people about, as well as, tell people that they should leave their husband.

Those people are full of themselves. They don't know how to listen. Those kind of people think they have achieved everything in life, but they lack the most important thing and that is wisdom!

Yeah I have known a lot of person who have that kind of attitude,a person that keep on dominating somebody! Because they keep on believing on their self that they know everything, despite the hurt they have planted already to such person!! But don't get discourage on that, just believe in yourself and fulfill all your endeavors in life. Cheer up girl!! God Bless You

Those people are numb, because of years and years of being full of themselves. And their minds are close to something that has nothing to do with them. I pitty those people.

hi:) If you're family is what you're talking about, they are bossy because they're overprotected.they want you to make the right decision later in life, they mostly do that because they love you, because they made bad choices back then and they don't want you to have same mistakes, but if it's other and not any of your family or friends that bossing you around, then just ignore them because they don't do that for love instead it's to make you embarrassed.

Personally this is so True, and it is really sad when people continue to want to act this way. I would often think that people would be a little more understanding and want to help, instead of always thinking they are better than everyone else, and everyone should listen to them and bow down or else. Many times when they become in charge they forget about the little people and often end up only having everyone else dislike and distrust them from there.

hi averygirl. i'm sorry, did you just ask for me? what you wrote down describes me to a T. lol! seriously, i've been called insensitive so many times, i've lost count. being insensitive ain't that bad if you really think about it.

Hi girl! I would say that everyone have their own way to live and to expect everyone do the same is not correct. To push others to do exactly like them is not correct too. I would love to say that it is good for them to share about the experience but to think that they are already great is wrong. They should know that everyone has different ways on how to deal with their lives. I am meeting these people everyday as I always against them I don't want to say much, I just let them say whatever they want. I will prove that they are totally wrong. Just wait and see..(^^)

Hi averygirl, i accept I am bossy and insensitive sometimes and i hate myself for being like that. But when someone told me so, I'll slow down and meditate for a while. Whoever that person whom you mean i hope you could talk to himand you could voice out how you feel. I'm sure he will calm down and won't boss around maybe he's not aware of what he's doing. Happy mylotting.. :)

Yes and sometimes they KNOW they are hurting others and don't care. Sometimes they do this due to the fact that their self esteme is soo low that they must make others look bad. I have experienced with my ex and his family. For some reason they took joy in making me look bad and others. My sister in law was sooo mean she started rumors that I had a EATING disorder when in fact I just had colitis. Man, all I can say is this; what goes around comes around.