Do you know someone who can't refrain from eating?

@Jenith (1381)
Philippines
August 10, 2011 4:48am CST
I have a friend who is overnourished. She is having a hard time finding dress that fits on her. I suggested her to go on a diet. Everytime we eat we have same amount of food for her not to go beyond to keep her healthy and if she follow this everytime she eats there's a possibility she gets thinner. But if the food is her favorite and so yummy she can't resist herself from eating. She can consumed a whole roasted chicken plus 1liter of coke and lot of rice. If I just let her eat 1 cup of rice every meal she said she was so hungry after 2-3 hours. She's always craving for food. Do you guys have any idea how get her back into shape? I really wanted to help her.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Hi jenith, I consider myself as a heavy eater I EAT A LOT and i am thin, it has something to do with my metabolism and I am so thankful to be really slim.. I eat a lot but I always make sure I did household chores and I always make sure I eat more veggies.. I hope she does. As what you've mentioned she's over weight, I think the person who can help her is herself by having self discipline. Eat a lot of vegetables, less protein and carbo.Exercise in a week will help her too. Have you seen biggest loser pinoy edition at ABS-CBN they really lose weight because they strive hard. I hope that reality show will inspire her.
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@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Wow that's good for you. Your metabolism is too fast. Wish her metabolism will be like yours. ;) And oh yeah she watched biggest loser. Have a great day nurseclare!
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• Philippines
13 Aug 11
I wish she can borrow my metabolism... I hope she'll have the courage to slim down.. Have a nice day jenith..
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• United States
10 Aug 11
It's important for someone who is on a diet to not get hungry. If she's unable to fill herself up at meals, she might reach for something sugary like a cupcake in between meals. But it sounds like her trouble isn't about sweets, it's about eating too much. Maybe she is not getting enough vitamins in her diet, so her body is always craving more, and no matter who much she eats she is not getting the right vitamins. Is she eating whole grain, and fiber? Grains are very filling, and fiber is great for tons of reasons. If she is really that hungry all of the time, it might not be her fault, she could have a thyroid problem, or something she cannot help. Also make sure she is drinking a lot of water, because sometimes people think they are hungry when they are really thirsty.
• United States
12 Aug 11
The thyroid is a gland in the front of the throat. The doctor said I might have a thyroid problem because I eat very little and am underweight, but I had a blood test and the results were negative. There's hypothyroidism and hyperthyroidism. Hypothyroidism is when the thyroid does not produce enough hormones, and symptoms include overeating. Hyperthyroidism is when the thyroid produces too much and a person undereats. If she is having other symptoms, such as fatigue, this might be the problem. I have also heard that protein is filling, so eggs and sausage for breakfast might help curb her cravings later throughout the day.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Now I know. Thanks lilbaby. She might visit a doctor one of these days.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
I recommend her oatmeal for breakfast but she doesn't like the taste. What she love most is really full meal. What do you mean by thyroid problem? need more info about this. Thanks lilbaby.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
16 Aug 11
She was so hungry after every 2-3 hours, i am doubtful i can help her in any way. Maybe she doesn't mind looking really huge and heavy if she can't refrain from eating so often, she may need some brain scan to see whether her neuron constantly fire up inside her head to order her to eat. In some people, the malfunction inside a brain is the main result they can't stop or control their eating urges. I can only give advice on a remedy one at a time until the source of the eating disorder is pinpointed before further diagnosis can be given.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
Sounds scary lampar. Maybe I'm not gonna tell her regarding this 'cause maybe she would think that something wrong with her head. And when you say brain scan some people misinterpret it, they thought you gonna be crazy. Thanks for the information.
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Yes, aherm that would be me. I use to want to diet a lot since I have issues with weight gain but I have learn to control this a few years ago because I have motivation to do so. It must be the same thing for you friend she needs her own motivation in order to make her lose weight. I am back to my heaviest weight now and just this morning I decided to control what I eat. I am not like your friend though who is always hungry. I don't want to make excuses so I will not go in that direction. Starting Saturday I hope to join the aerobics club in my neighborhood and make a good meal plan and practical exercise regimen for health sake. The change should start from your friend's desire to change.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Motivation of oneself is a big factor then. It's good for you that you always find ways to trim yourself and looking forward to see a photo of yours which is slim and healthy.;) Good day starrose.
@thetis74 (1525)
11 Aug 11
Wow! That is some friend you got there. I was shocked. I'd probably be more shocked if I have a friend who eats like that in front of me. Her stomach must b so big how she can handle that much without vomiting. I have not known of someone like that. I knew that some of my overweight members of the family eats a lot but surely not like that.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
hmmm really she got a big stomach(like a 6months preggy)...no, not only stomach but almost all parts of her body. ;)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
For me, what she gonna do is that she is going to take a fruit diet. This is a very good diet.She is going to Eat lot of fruits this will be her meals on breakfast, lunch and a dinner..from time to time she is hungry.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Eating lot of fruits still makes ones body fat I guess.
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
with the amount of her food intake, it would be very hard for her to just eat 1 cup of rice. she will really feel hunger. what you've got to do is to tell her to gradually reduce her food intake. for starters, she could take small frequent meals. this is much better than eating a lot of food all at the same time. after a month of taking small frequent meals, let her start giving up snacks and just eat 3x a day. i am on a glycemic index diet and is very effective for me. the principle of this diet, is the quality of the carbohydrates and not the quantity. i started with 1 cup of rice for breakfast, 1/2 for lunch and no rice for dinner. then eventually eat rice once in breakfast and substitute my carb intake with whole wheat bread or pasta (but small serving only). i also avoid potatoes. i lost 5 kilos in 8 weeks.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Wanna congratulate for having an effective diet. She told me lately that what she did for her diet is to eat potato alone like you know every time she starved she just eat potato. And you avoid potatoes...I'm puzzled.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
That's really bad then. She need to discipline herself or else she will suffer the consequences of these over eating. She should be aware that unhealthy diet will give her some health problems and that she will regret it later. Give her more advice to take care of her health and not only listening to her cravings and eating disorder. have a good day jaiho®
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Discipline is what she missed, she always crave for yummy food. Thanks Jaiho.
16 Aug 11
She needs to train herself to stop eating. She needs to make her stomach shrink. Her stomach now is quite large [internal stomach I don’t mean she looks fat or anything] .. so what she needs to do is shrink it, because now she can eat and eat and eat until her internal stomach is full.. so if she shrinks it she can eat less. She needs to not eat, for a day or 2 at the most, this will cause her stomach to shrink, and the 3rd day, when she starts to eat again, she won’t be able to eat as much,. Then she reduces what she eats more and more.. or, if she can’t not eat for 2 days.. tell her to start cutting things out, one day eat 3 cups of rice, the next day 2, the next day 1.. then eat 2 or 1 for ages. You’ll find eventually she can’t eat the 2nd or 3rd cup of rice as her stomach has shrunk ?
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
hi jenith bring her to a nutritionist. She will be advised on what to do. I have been to a nutritionist before and I was allowed to eat only cereal for breakfast; 1/2 cup of rice, 1 cup of vegetable soup and fruit for lunch and 1 glass of glucerna or insure for dinner. During every meals, I was allowed to eat fruits and raw vegetables every time I crave for food. I was not a heavy eater before my diet. But I am overweight and still overweight because i didn't go back to the nutritionist. I was discouraged because when I went there for our scheduled session she did not come to her clinic. I was just advised by her secretary that she had an appointment with another patient. Now am planning to go back to her.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
I already told her about it but she always forgot to do so. Maybe she did not prioritize it or maybe just too busy for her job. Yeah better go back to your nutritionist to maintain your diet and have a healthy body. Have a nice day pahak!
10 Aug 11
hi jenith:) I think she needs to discipline herself if she is already overweight, its not only so she could dress nicely, but for her health also, if she is obese then she have the high risk of having a heart problem and high blood and some disease that's related to obesity... I hope she could control her eating problem soon.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
Let's just crossed our fingers for her. Me too afraid that sooner or later obesity will come on her way. In fact for now when she sweat it smells so bad.
@pibi713 (187)
• China
16 Aug 11
She has a heavy weight because she eats too much. If she can go on a diet, there is a possibility for she to lose weight. She should be determined and have strong perseverance. That is not so easy. Dose she have a boyfriend. If not, She might start to lose weight when she has a crush on someone special.