He doesn't Listen!!
@jahernandezrivas (11287)
United States
August 11, 2011 9:25am CST
Don't you just hate it when people do not listen to you? Okay every time I try to tell my husband something he acts like he is listening to what I am saying and a few days later he blows up at me for some stupid reason!! 
So I had to tell him last night pay attention to me the next time I try to tell you something!! But that does not even work either it is like he doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it!!! Urgg!!!! What do you do in situations like this having to constantly repeat yourself over and over?
So I had to tell him last night pay attention to me the next time I try to tell you something!! But that does not even work either it is like he doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it!!! Urgg!!!! What do you do in situations like this having to constantly repeat yourself over and over?1 person likes this
3 responses
@vivamir (671)
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14 Sep 11
Hi jahernandzrivas..
In my case.. if people dont listen *usually my partner or younger siblings*, I just end up annoying them to the point where it actually sinks in and I get them to repeat what Ive said.. this way they know for certain that what I am trying to tell them is for a reason and holds some importance..
Got to say the success rate is quite high, although my stress levels may match it at times.. Im happy to say they actually listen and remember in the end LOL..
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@jahernandezrivas (11287)
• United States
15 Sep 11
I try and try to make him listen but it doesn't work 
@vivamir (671)
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15 Sep 11
In that case my friend... Keep trying.. hell have to listen sooner or later..
One of my favourites.. is to shout out there is an Emergency of some kind.. if they dont respond.. then theres a little trouble, purely because its out of annoyance that they could end up hurt one day as because THEY DO NOT LISTEN..
Maybe that will open his eyes a little?...
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@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 11
mhm, I hate it so much when someone I want to talk to didnt pay me any attention. I used to shout at him. but it didnt work. he would only say "yeah yeah yeah I got it" but he didnt do what I told him to. well apparently I changed my way of telling him things. I message his shoulder, pouring him coffee and tell him nicely that I am in need of his help, I want him to bla bla bla. it worked. at least longer than when I shouted at him.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
14 Aug 11
Hi ja hernandez rivas: Sometimes people don't realize that they are not actually listen to what the other person is saying. It's a really frustrating feeling because there's no real communication. Sometimes these problems need some therapy between you and your partner to improve your abilities. Of course it's not good to feel that way, to be ignored it's always a sad thing. hope you can find a solution together.
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@jahernandezrivas (11287)
• United States
15 Aug 11
Yes it ids frustrating when he does not listen but I talked to him and he apaolgized to me. 
Thank you and have a great day!!
Thank you and have a great day!! 