why are there women to destroy a relationship?

Hi chiyosan! I don't understand that, too. I'm a woman with pride so I can't really fathom why there are women who swallow their pride and become a number two of some guy. I mean, is their love for that guy really that blind? And I mean, if you love a guy you don't want him to have a very complicated life, right? And if you're a considerate person, you wouldn't want to hurt anyone just to pursue your personal interest because that would be really mean. Those women who do not think about this are probably blindly in love with the guy.

I am not that kind of girl so I have no idea nor assumption why women be the third party but I have my own opinion which it include everyone who involved in that relationship the couples both man and woman and the third person. If any of them sis not start it out- cheating, flirting etc, there will be no problem in heir relationship.

Yes there are women who play that role and they not mind the outcome of what they did. Some of them are for the reason of money and very rare has the reason for love. At this time for so many hungry for food because the economy of the country... a very low income and unemployment raise. So, there are women would do anything in exchange of money and living. Sometimes i cannot blame them why they are like that but it was so unfair with other woman that ruin their family because of them played as mistress. It was not a good but what else we can do to help them out of that life. THey dont want to work fairly with others.

i had so much of this in my past relationships. i kept on wondering why and how they could take this relationship but i stopped asking when i found out a close friend of mine is doing the same thing. she told me that at times some things are really out of control.

I think there a re so many kinds of people out there. I think there are also many men out there who set forth to destroying relationships. I think it is with the lust of the flesh. If there is the lack of respect for someone else, and for himself, then there will be the lack of respect for relationships, then these people will just simply do what they think thy would like to do. There are so many people like that, and it is the sad truth. This is the reason why as parents, we should always try to educate our children about the virtue of respect. At the same time, we should also try to teach them to fight for what is their so that they will grow up knowing that they should also protect what is theirs, and not to step into someone else's properties. In other words, there should be respect that should thrive in the very veins of all people, including us.

maybe they found the love at the wrong place and time. some women dont mean to destroy relationship because there are reasons why they are doing it even if it is wrong.

Hi,yes, i admit there are such bad women who like to destroy others marriage with their advantage of young age and beautiful faces, i think it is immoral, especially unfair to the wives who have went through hard times with their husbands and win better life, but then are defeated by young girls. But as we chinese often say"one hand can't make a clap". You can't deny that the men's greed also play a role in such affairs. It is because men prefer younger and more beautiful women, that these women succeed. If a man is loyal to his wife, he won't be seduced by others.