My cousin urf ex best friend is hell bent on ruining my life.

@akangirl (2436)
India
August 15, 2011 3:29pm CST
Just a month ago i broke up with my cousin. she comes in very distant relationship with my family but is the only cousin who lives in same city and same sector. our houses are hardly 5 minute walk away.Actually the reason for our fight was not a very big one but i did it because i realized that she always takes advantage of me and i got know how much she lies to me and in addition she was back stabbing me by spreading bad rumors about me personally and professionally as well. Our fight happened a month ago , i had a off that day and her younger sis who was also a good friend of mine then asked me to spend the day with her as she recently got suspended from her job for a week and she didn't wanted to tell her parents so she asked her elder sis (my friend) to lend her the keys of the flat which elder sis boyfriend took on rent. They said they will give key at 12 am so we went to the mall to kill time and met our other friend dadu( who works in a retail brand shop in the mall aswell) and borrowed his car keys saying that we need to keep our bags in it. he gave us the keys and also promised he will give us a lift aswell to the flat on his lunch time at 2 pm, we said ok.But instead we took the car out of parking lot and went to take the keys from elder sis boyfriend at his gym which was nearby but when we reached gym the petrol finished so we asked elder sis boyfriend to bring the petrol, he was pissed as nowadays its against rule to sell petrol in open at petroleum pumps. Somehow he got it but said he will tell her sister and as i know her sister temper i asked him not to do so as the girl already have lots of problem in her mind like getting suspended for a week and also she had fight with her bf and it was her anniversary day. He didnt say anything. we went back to mall , parked the car, went to the flat i convinced the younger sis boyfriend to forgive as its their special day. he got convinced and decided to come , we gave him the address and he came at around 8:15pm and the our other friend who dropped us there came at 9:15 to drop us home back again, i got a call from her sis she sounded angry for no reason she was shouting on phone.I told this to her younger sis and she said lets lock the door and leave before they come and insult me infront of my bf and ruin our day.I said ok.We locked the doors ,i waited outside the car with keys so that i give them as soon they come.They came , started shouting wow you guys had party and didn't tell us, insulted her boyfriend and when i tried to explain , the elder sis boyfriend shouted that i should shut up as i am drunk. I was shocked and she didnt say anything instead she joined him in insulting all of us. I was shocked beyond belief as we were friends since childhood, in order to keep this relationship of hers solid i lied lots of time to her boyfriend, even told her ex-boyfriend with whom she had relation still then that they are her brothers because she said so and promised she is faithful to current boyfriend and others are just friends.I swore that i wont ever talk to her after then. [/b] NOW[b] I got a call today from a friend with whom i had casual relationship a long time ago and he is a mutual friend of us both.He was shouting he will ruin my life as i have contacted his girlfriend and forwarded her the sms i had of our conversation which were adult in nature. I am shocked as i knew his girlfriend name but never seen her.Just my cousin has met her and she used to tell me that girl is huge and very dark complexioned. But it didn't matter me as i had a friend with benefit relation with him with no strings attached and its been long time since we last met.He was threatening to come to my home and show the messages to my parents as i have ruined his life. I am shocked i can't ever hurt anybody especially never intentionallyIts too cheap but i know that this is working of my cousin as i have lost my old mobile last month and i never had his gf's number.I am sad that i lost a good friend, now he will also spread bad rumors about me and what will happen when my mom gets to know all that.I didn't do anything and still i am suffering, i cried a lot and was not able to control myself and get it out of myself.He said so many things that its still stinging at my heart.
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3 responses
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
15 Aug 11
I really don't understand your discussion due to the break in English. However, I don't think you should have been dating your cousin anyway. I have cousins that I care about but would never date one. I think that you need to just tell your mom anything that she needs to know and then he can't ruin your life.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
15 Aug 11
i am not dating my cousin, my cousin is a girl actually, she did a very mean thing which you can understand in last paragraph of the discussion.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
16 Aug 11
Thanks friends, yes i have told a bit to my mom and my sis knows everything.They support me
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
For me just ignore it because they use by devil so that your life not became good so better you to prayed Jehovah God so that things will be great someday in your life.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
16 Aug 11
yeah i think i should ignore but i am just shocked how people could get so low and i knew this friend since childhood and now i feel like that i never knew anything about her.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
16 Aug 11
Wow, what a rotten thing to do to someone! That is beyond lousy…Is there any way you can explain to your friend that your cousin is responsible for this mess? Surely he will listen if you explain it to him. I am so sorry this has happened to you. It is probably best you forget your cousin for a while. I would say to her, “Good on you, you have hurt me deeply, I hope you feel happy with yourself, please don’t bother to talk to me again until you realise what a mean spirited person you have become.”
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
16 Aug 11
I haven't talked to her for a month and i agree that its really mean thing, she was my childhood friend even after i broke my friendship with her then how could she forget how i have always been there for her.
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