Lovesick - destroyed on the ground

Indonesia
August 15, 2011 8:12pm CST
Predictably though, it is now happening. My long distance relationship suffered from the distance and sometimes also on inconsequential things, but future plans were made??, etc. I have fallen in love madly in love with this man, though, as I found out he was not always exactly match the fidelity. But as they say, love is blind, I let me 'wrap up' again and I believed his excuses, because I wanted to believe it. Reason was excluded entirely. Nevertheless, I have not, however, somewhat apart, emotionally. Now, my friend contacted me and informed that he has found a wonderful woman, etc. etc. I'm devastated and suffer so much that I hardly know to help. What should I do?
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7 responses
• Indonesia
4 Sep 11
I know this really does not help now, but time will bring it. Do you realize what it was all negative and positive course. What exactly makes you create that? He has deceived you, he was far away and has another, what he has apparently told not exactly sensitive. You might suffer so because it has become nothing to you, but even with another, it's more about him than about?
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 11
Do it like many other women also. Go to the hairdresser. Let yourself be completely re-styled. Another cut, different color, different makeup, different clothes and also with you Greetings from the godfather
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
16 Aug 11
This happens quite often. I would say hang out with some friends and try to meet new people. Did you ever meet this person or was it just over the Internet? I was in a relationship where we were from different countries and we made plans as well, I even filed and received a passport that's how into this guy I was. Here to find out he was always parting and had other girls on the Internet he was promising the same things to as well. Plus he cheated all the time. But everyday we would voice chat and webcam on yahoo for hours at a time, it did not last and I just hung out with some friends and meet some new people. Now I will not do the Internet dating thing again.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
I feel sorry for you, but as you have already recognized, was well in sight, be glad that he is honest yet, but what did you expect? so be reasonable and was glad that he is so far away, so you can completely reorient yourself. how many times have you seen in the year? you have to see also just the ratios. So little head high, you come to realize that. It takes just a little, but will see it can only get better!
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
I'm sorry. The right answer will not find you, unfortunately. Only things like "busy yourself with something else", etc. How about when you go to a quiet place where there is water, etc. and you worry your just "wash away"? I know it's really not easy: p. Or are you going to cut your hair, new clothes etc..? That really helps! And PLEASE do not listen to the music connects YOU.
16 Aug 11
hi:) I'm sorry for what happened to you, but that's part of living, you fall in love and then you'll get hurt, but to be able to forget about him all you can do is just live your life and enjoy together with your friends, but for now because the pain is still fresh, just cry it loud and confide all your pain to your friend and family, then you'll soon noticed that all the hurts are gone.
• Indonesia
16 Aug 11
I'm also very sorry that. But in order to forget him better you must learn to hate him and to no longer love, because He has done a great hurt you! you have to distract yourself! you meet with friends. everything reminds him of trying to go on the way! It is very important that you feel feelings no more for him. the only good thing is that you'll never really get to see him. delete his number handy. call him and he does not write any sms! no emails nothing! learn to deal with the situation. it is easier said than done, but with time you will accept it better. consistent among people because the more you stay in contact with people the easier it is to think of him! He will not be the only one in your life! eventually you'll find the right person and you deserve the love you just as you also should love someone. if you want to cry then do it. only way to create it. you you must not swallow your feelings down. We are people far too sensitive. you only live once! You will learn so many great people to know! every tear you shed for this man he does not deserve it !!!!! you'll do it! I wish you much much luck here!