why do we get hurt?

@lovedude (4447)
India
August 16, 2011 3:13pm CST
we know we shouldn't expect anything from anyone.. then too we do expect.. we do get hurt.. why it is happening every-time even when we think we won't expect anything from anyone..
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Sanitary
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
23 Aug 11
We get hurt because we are supposed to learn from those experiences. Never mind if we don't get hurt too badly, but we have to learn from it. There are people who always refuse to learn from their hurtful experience, being overly optimistic that the next experience would be a better one. HOwever, the next one often end up worst than our previous ones. I don't mind being hurt, as that makes me a stronger person.
lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
• India
24 Aug 11
very nice answer.. yes. every hurt makes you more stronger.. :)
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ordinarygirl88
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
When you get hurt, it means that there is love... You can't get hurt if you don't love him/her, HURT is part of our life and it helps us get stronger and push us to do better by learning from our mistakes... And about the expect thing.... Just expect the unexpected... don't trust people easily... ^_^
lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
• India
17 Aug 11
haha.. I agree in some states.. but it's not always love when you get hurt.. I am talking generally not between only boy and a girl..